D-termined Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 I am 26 years old, have two double master degrees that I did while at a study abroad program in Europe. I was recently unemployed for a while, I finally found a job and I can't wait to make enough money to move out of this house!!! I have student loans that prevent me from living on my own and not seeing my disrespectful, lazy, and discussting step-brother. Last year we had a horrible argument, he even dared to slap my hands and tried to hit me. What kind of ******* does that to a 5'2 girl, when he is almost 6 feet tall? The whole argument started because my parents were on vacation and we were suppose to meet them later on. I asked him to clean the dishes that he used and were laying there over 4 days, no he did not! I asked him to take the dog out while I was at work, no he did not. I had to pick poo and clean pee afterwards! when he's not even my dog!!...I was being caring and nice, and texted him asking him if he was going to be home to eat so that I would cook something for him, not even bother to respond! I bought food and told him to help himself and save me some, he finished it!!! and so he dared to use my soap, which I hate, becuase he is so discussting, and I blew out on him about that....he got upset, called me greety!!! after I offered him my own food, with my own money!! he called me a bitch and told me how tired he was of me acting like a mom, he put his face 2 inches away from me and wanted to hit me, I was shocked!!! I put my hand on his chest and told him to move away.....he slapped my hand and told me: DON'T ****ING TOUCH ME! I couldn't believe it, he was acting like a gang bangger with me??? and after all this we went to airport together and I had to pay for the taxi!! he didn't even offer to pay for himself...and I just didn't want to mean...but I hated that I let him off the hook. I used to help him with his hw, pick him up from school, even helped him buy books online for college.....anway...eventually we made up, I talked to him becuase I stopped talking to him for a while, and I did not feel good about that....but eventually I am back to where I was after the fight, I hate him...I hate the fact that my step-mother is always whinning about him being lazy and never calling home and coming here like it was a hotel...and to be honest, I am sick of him. It only takes to look at him for me to get upset....I don't respect him at all, something inside of me died on regards to him.....and the way he is makes me sick!!! I mean is it hard to flush the toilet after u use it? pick up your clothes from the bathroom floor? not make noise running up and down the stairs when u come at 3 in the morning when we are sleeping??? I don't know what to do, I had talked to my parents about him....but as always, his mom treats him like a baby and will never let him grow up....and she is another story I just can't even talk about....omg!!! I need to get the hell out of here, far from him....I only love my sister and my dad....my step-brother and step-mother are not pleasant persons...always negative! HELP
Tayla Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Silly me, Which part of your post was exuding positive Warm Fuzzies? AN old saying..it takes two to tango....In this case to bicker yet be the mirror images of one another. .... As an adult you are free to have preferances of likes and dislikes, this includes people...So what is your real concern here? Has someone stated you MUST LIKE your step brother? Cuz I hereby state- You dont have to like them, you do need to learn to find a healthy balance of civility.
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