solo123 Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Anything you can all provide as far as tips, support, etc would be appreciated. 4 mth relationship, split 3 weeks ago. So impossible to know what she's thinking, but a large part of why we split I think is because she kept mentioning that she's not sure she can give me what I want and doesn't want me to waste my time a year in after a few days of me talking about commitment and how important it is for people to keep their word and how I've been disappointed in the past with others (general stuff, not just relationships). I think she misinterpreted this as too much pressure on her. She also knows that I moved on fast after my last ex (meeting her just weeks later) and don't want her to think with NC i could be doing the same. Like I said, I get the rule of NC but calibration is important. I've seen cases where after a split, their egos are bruised and NC just turns permanent. Biggest fear now is that had I seen her sooner, I could have recovered - despite what she says (woman logic), when we're together I know she wants this and she shows it and we both feel it. Dying to see her in person and don't want her to wean/talk herself out of this over time by becoming more busy with other things. Original post here and don't want to repost in case it's not allowed but thought this might also be a good sub-forum to post in: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=2896148#post2896148 Thanks
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