xx.Kael.xx Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Is it normal to have the need to constantly want to check my exs MySpace/facebook? I know I shouldn't...but damn. Advice please, before I make a decision ill regret. Don't want to open any healing scars..but I want to know if she's seeing someone.
USMCHokie Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Yes, of course it's normal right after a break up...you have suddenly lost a connection to the person you were with, and social networking sites are the closest you'll get to that sort of connection...you want to know what they're thinking, how they're feeling, if they still think about you, if they are with someone else, and the list goes on...and oftentimes we'll create sh*t in our minds out of what we see in their profiles...if she has a certain status update, you'll manipulate the words in your head to make it seem like she's "talking to you"...when the truth is it has nothing to do with you... It takes mental and emotional fortitude to avoid looking at their profiles...and if you really want to know if she's seeing someone, won't that just reopen those scars that you're trying to keep sealed...?
skydiveaddict Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Well said devil dog. I can add nothing further
Steven101 Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 It's funny because i do this, i used to go on her myspace, facebook alot because i missed her so much, now i only go on it to get to her, to annoy her, to make her feel hurt. Because she really hurt me... it is normaly but with the first reply you got (sorry i dont know the name) he is correct.
Username37 Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 I checked her FB constantly too. It was SO painful. And I found her tumblr and she posted something about me. She restricted me on FB. I haven't spoken to her but it feels like she knew I checked her profile.
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