Exit Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Been seeing someone great for a while now but something in the back of my mind keeps telling me to end it. I can't put my finger on what it is, and I think that is part of why I don't know what to do. If I'm going to dump someone, I would like to have a tangible reason to give them. I know I'm the type of person to regret things once I pull the trigger and I definitely don't want to find myself in that boat. Want to be as close to 100% sure before I even think about ending it. It's not something I take lightly and I wouldn't expect her to come back if I changed my mind. She hasn't really done anything "wrong" and we actually have a lot in common and have a lot of fun when we're together, so I have no idea why I'm feeling this way. I guess if I could sum it up in any way right now, I feel like I'm giving 100% twenty-four hours a day and don't really feel like I'm getting a fair return on my efforts. I just busted my butt to give her an amazing birthday and it just hardly felt appreciated. Just venting, I know it's a pretty vague situation and there's not much anyone can do to help me.
paleblue Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 not sure, maybe it takes her longer to develop feelings? did you over do the b-day? too much too soon? not sure exactly of the situation, but the first thing that comes to my mind is overkill. again, not sure, but that is what comes to mind here. could this be an overkill situation?
Steven101 Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 I'm in the same boat, or i was.... truth is, the past is a big key with me in reltionships, i've been hurt so many times, i guess my mind was fooling me to breakup with her because i want to save myself from pain... Listen some girls are scared to show feelings to guys because they do not want to be seen as "clingy" i suggest before you do anything "big" with her, just speak to her, it could save you alot of worrying and stress, i think if you ask yourself deep down if you want her, i am sure you will get the answer because why else would you be with her for such a long period of time... you gotta live in the moment, step back abit and look at what you have... good luck buddie x
sugarmomma Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 (edited) Is this something that you can/have talk with her about?? Doesn't sound like a dealbreaker unless it is something that has become a pattern. Do you have other examples?? Edited July 20, 2010 by sugarmomma
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