m16gogirl Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 my fiance and i just broke up. I am 5 months pregnant with his child and he treats me like crap. but only since ive been pregnant. I told him yesterday morning i was feeling down. he completely ignored me. so i told him i really didn't think we needed to focus on us maybe our goals because he doesn't care about his pregnant fiance. he never responded. so i went to talk to him he blew up on me when i presented evidence of him soliciting sex online. now he wont talk to me. not at all. im scared and alone and pregnant, i don't know what to do. my poor baby doesn't deserve this. he deserves better. why is he doing this to me. why wont he talk to me. I just want to be civil because we are having a child and he wont even talk he acts like a child. im so hurt. i don't know what to do.
quankanne Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 sounds like being a parent is a responsibility he's afraid of and/or not ready to handle – hugs to you, I cannot imagine being in your situation and not having some kind of support. do you have family or friends who can be there for you emotionally?
txsilkysmoothe Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 I'm not sure how old you are, but do you have family that will help you out? You are right. Your focus cannot be on your romantic relationship. You must now put your baby first. Congratulations on becoming a mom. Decide what is necessary for you to be the best mother you can be and do it. I've been there. I have a 12 yo daughter. Her father abandoned me when I told him I was pregnant. I found a job and worked my ass off. It wasn't easy, but life isn't easy. My daughter has given me much love and joy. A lot of women go through this situation and triumph. You can too. Your boyfriend has problems. Maybe he doesn't want to be a dad. Maybe he doesn't want a relationship with you. His issues really don't matter. He will have to come to terms with the situation. You can't do that for him. Leave him alone and let him work it out. He may or may not be back. You have plenty of other responsibilities to keep you busy. Best of Luck!
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