xtortioN Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 long story short, lost my virginity to a girl, i really really loved. (only 16 yr olds) and she ended up liking my best friend better. (biggest cry fest for a 16yr old toughie) they didn't go out to my knowledge, and now shes with a 22 year old thats in the army atm, they have had sex all the rest. now the interesting bits. apparently she likes my affection, (we're still like best friends) so she like lays with my and pretty much we cuddle when we stay at each others houses, onetime, we ended up making out ;o, and the other night we watched porn (lold, we're totally comfortable around each other) and we were teasing each other, so i was kissing her neck and she got on top of me a few times, its bizare, i dont wanna like her again, she hurt me so so so bad. But if im going to like her, might as well try to get her back. your thoughts? (btw we're like totally the same lol, we met at kickboxing, both play some stupid online game, and their parents love me and mine love her, and her grandparents love me lolll) anywayz, thankyou in advance
ALombard Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 Truth be told? You're 16, you don't need to be in a relationship, especially a serious one. At your age you should be having fun and not worrying about falling in love, etc. I stayed away from relationships when I was your age, yeah I dated, but never had anything official or serious until I was 18. Just go out and have fun man, when you're my age then start looking for something serious and long term.
Author xtortioN Posted July 19, 2010 Author Posted July 19, 2010 Truth be told? You're 16, you don't need to be in a relationship, especially a serious one. At your age you should be having fun and not worrying about falling in love, etc. I stayed away from relationships when I was your age, yeah I dated, but never had anything official or serious until I was 18. Just go out and have fun man, when you're my age then start looking for something serious and long term. mk lol, tbh i could still love her its hard to tell cause im trying quite hard to ignore this ****. argh, stupid teenage years ::/
ALombard Posted July 19, 2010 Posted July 19, 2010 Listen man, I'm not by any means going to try to put you down but here's the truth. At an age like yours most of the "love" you feel for this girl isn't REAL. It sounds harsh I know but when I was your age 16 or 17, I fell for a girl, hard. I thought I loved her after being with her for 6 months. Looking back on it now I realized I didn't even know what real love was. So just cheer up and get some strange ass, eventually find "the girl".
Author xtortioN Posted July 20, 2010 Author Posted July 20, 2010 Listen man, I'm not by any means going to try to put you down but here's the truth. At an age like yours most of the "love" you feel for this girl isn't REAL. It sounds harsh I know but when I was your age 16 or 17, I fell for a girl, hard. I thought I loved her after being with her for 6 months. Looking back on it now I realized I didn't even know what real love was. So just cheer up and get some strange ass, eventually find "the girl". to easy then, ill be the town ma-slut in a weeek, closeeed
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