lozjojo Posted July 18, 2010 Posted July 18, 2010 My best friend a guy im a gal! I know,and we used to be really close. When he was having problems with his girl at the time (he was engaged).We got what seemed closer than mates should be with what was being said and way he behaved round me. Nothing happened phsyical apart feom some cuddling and a couple o meet ups. I kept him at a distance but liked him i couldve pushed it but it wasnt me and was unsure what he wanted as he could be suggestive at times. Anyway he started acting cold with me and i then found out he met some other girl who he dumped his then girl 4. I confronted him but he denied all as guys do. Since he left it's like he's trying to cut me out of his life. He never gets in touch anymore and when I (rarely) talk to him he acts like he really can't be bothered to talk to me. He only talks to me when his girl is on courses out the country or shes out. I truely miss having him in my life. I don't know whether he's being this way because he's hung-up on the past or what. Sometimes i think its cause we missed our chance so to speak
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 20, 2010 Posted July 20, 2010 Hi, I understand that you'd like him in your life, and it is unfortunate that you can't control that element of it. BUT, (the) guys (you read about most often) are such DOGS, that when one guy in your world inspires himself to be drawn only to one woman, it seems quite a surprise and little short of a *slap* in your face when his actions suggest a preference in the moment. I'm guessing that he is quite content (and perhaps excitedly challenged) in his romantic pursuit of the other woman and that is the only reason for his reduced time in your vicinity.
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