JohnnyDrama Posted July 18, 2010 Posted July 18, 2010 I had a thread almost 2 weeks ago about packing it in for relationships this girl just wanted to be friends. Well we still have talked while she has been on vacation. After a day of disappointment I was okay with the friends idea but things have taken a bizarre turn. Monday night she was talking to me and she asked if I had any physical/sexual feelings towards her when we were together and I said yes but with the friends thing now those feelings will have to be put aside. She's like "if we can be good friends though couldn't we have those physical/sexual feelings." I was like I guess. At this time I realize what she's saying but I am surprised by what she said. She went on to ask me if I was a virgin because I really do come off as a straight arrow and innocent but I am not. She went on to ask a couple other questions and then told me she was a virgin. I was kind of surprised on one hand but she comes off as very innocent either so it wasn't a shock or anything. We talked about that and she mentioned how she's looking for a spontaneous guy that would kiss her and grab her etc.. At this time I am pretty upset that I seemingly blew my chance but there are so many thoughts going on etc. Then she mentions she can still come over watch movies and show me how she wants to be kissed etc.. I told her we will chat about this when she gets back and we have continued to talk. Part of me realizes she doesn't know what she wants and she's 24 and I understand that. Does anything she said to me even remotely mean a thing? I am just so confused at this moment. I mean I was okay with the friends thing until she started talking about this stuff. Help
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