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I get on facebook for the first time in a month and have this waiting on me from my ex's best friend...

 

(jane doe) wants you to come up to the shop tomorrow with your costa sunglasses, the box, and the receipt, and she'll bring you your stuff that you left at her house.

ps. if you dont we'll burn it and/or sell it on ebay

 

The break up didnt end really badly, it's in a previous post why would I get this message....

 

What should I do??

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How long ago did they post the message?

because "tomorrow" could have been a while back....

Do you know whether she has burned all your stuff, or sold it?

That's malicious damage, and theft.

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It was the 15th but i didnt read it untill about 2 am sunday morning. I doubt she will burn it, btw we have been broken up for about 2 months, and no contact for about 6 weeks.... I dont understand this, this is not her, i think her friends are brainwashing her...

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One of my colleagues received a text form her ex-BF's new girlfriend thretaening to take her to court for money she had promised she would try to lend her ex-BF, towards some bills.

It was utter tripe.

She texted back:

"If *Ex-BF's name* wants to discuss this, he can call me himself. This is none of your business."

 

She never heard another word.

 

If you seek clarification, get it from the horse's mouth.

If you want your stuff back, badly enough, do something about it.

 

Or else, just ignore it.

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I'm 99% sure i can get the stuff back through a third party who was bringing it to me anyway, because she said she no longer wanted it about 2 weeks ago. What I dont understand is why she wants the sunglasses back. She got them for me for christmas last year, and sadly i dropped them about 3 weeks after, they have a lifetime warrenty, but i never got around to sending them in.

 

The only things I can come up with is that some how, shes been either brainwashed into thinking im evil or something by that friend and wants them back out of spite.

 

She's completely gone nuts and plans to send them in get the new ones under warrenty and give them to her new bf. Which is a heartless thing to do, but she really hasn't been herself since the breakup....

 

Or shes mad that I now have a new gf, even after she told me and her friends she hoped I'd find someone who made me happy.

 

I broke up with her, but it was one of those things where they kind of wanted you too, so its more like i dumped myself....

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Well, i got the stuff back without seeing or saying a word to my ex or my friend....

 

But I still don't understand where this is coming from. Is it that maybe she is jelous about the new gf, and wants to get back at me. Or is it one of the other reasons or something completely different. If shes jelous does that mean she wants me back and doesn't want to say it, or does she just want to hurt me for no reason??

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Well, i got the stuff back without seeing or saying a word to my ex or my friend....

 

But I still don't understand where this is coming from. Is it that maybe she is jelous about the new gf, and wants to get back at me. Or is it one of the other reasons or something completely different. If shes jelous does that mean she wants me back and doesn't want to say it, or does she just want to hurt me for no reason??

 

Should I just leave it all alone and say nothing, or tell her friend that if my ex wants to talk to me, then she can, or bypass the friend and tell my ex something like, i don't know whats wrong but if you need to talk to me about something then you can?

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