nlw82 Posted July 18, 2010 Posted July 18, 2010 Ok, so I need some input on this one please, mainly because I'm starting to date after being divorced and have no clue as to what I'm doing. That may sound completely lame but it's the truth, at least that's how I feel. I went to match.com and met this girl and we messaged each other through the site and texts for about a week. Then I meet this girl for the first time for coffee. Only the thing is coffee doesn't happen...she invites me to her apartment because she doesn't want to go out. It doesn't bother me it's like 2 minutes away so I do the gentlemen type thing, in my mind, and bring her coffee and breakfast. We chit chat for a about an hour and then I go home. Before I left she asked for a hug...to me = weird, but I've been told that it is normal so I'll accept that. The following day we IM for like an hour and half and she starts gushing about past relationships and how she feels sick everytime she sees her ex and such. I do what I thought to be right to do...I listened and offered encouragement...makes sense to me to help someone feel better if they need it no matter who it may be. Later in the week I called and asked her out again. She had plans with friends, that's cool, and she said maybe sometime the following week. Which to me means I'm interested enough to see you again and see where it goes. So really, I'm just wondering...am I wasting my time? Is she still too hung up on her ex or her past? Thanks for any replies.
Feelin Frisky Posted July 18, 2010 Posted July 18, 2010 Not enough info to make a hard judgement. See if see actually comes out or pulls another why bother routine. She may develop second thoughts about her poor showing the first time and knock you out with her presence this time, or perhaps if you get that "let's just hang out and you listen to me lament my past" shi+ again you can then feel justified in jetissoning this wet blanket.
Author nlw82 Posted July 18, 2010 Author Posted July 18, 2010 Not enough info to make a hard judgement. Yeah that's my problem. I have no clue as to what is going on. If any women have a take on this let me know.
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