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Argument ive been having with my boyfriend over what he thinks is a double standard


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This is why men get to say women are crazy and be somewhat credible .. .. .. Lady, if you get to, he does. If he doesn't get to, you don't get to. Quit being an immature baby.

 

 

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Your boyfriend is right.

 

It`s a double standard.

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Also, if you are a person in a committed intimate relationship (just assuming), examine why you feel the need or desire to verbally comment on other people's sexual attractiveness to your SO. Take a look at that thought process and where it comes from. I think such introspection might be of help.

 

I do know couples who are compatible in this way, to the extent that they flirt with others in the presence of their SO. The key is they're *compatible* in this regard; there is no imbalance, no hurt feelings. It's fun for them. I'm not hearing that here. Good luck :)

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It is double standards. Though, I don't see the need to comment on the attractiveness of other members of the opposite sex.

 

In my previous relationship, I told my girlfriend how I was a fan of a specific female celebrity and inadvertently commented on how "hot" she was. This did not go well with her and I copped a reprimand. Then started many arguments with similarly circumstances - she says this guys attractive to get at me (gets worse than that) and so on and so forth. As you can see, there is no need for it.

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