cartierbenjamin Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 What is the difference in a challenge and someone already having their self together. I always hear people say they want a challenge, whether it is when a guy is being an ******* or disrespectful in some sorts. I always wondered what is attractive about it that compels females to want to be associated with it. A female I know said she doesn't want her boyfriend agreeing to all the stuff she says. My complaint was if that is what he genuinely wants to do or if her choice doesn't matter or effect him, why should he argue. Why should he have to pick a fight just cause. The logic about arguing is to prove a point not to just start something
Woggle Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 Some women love drama. These types just suck the life out of a man.
zengirl Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 I think everyone wants someone with some passion and opinions of their own (to varying degrees). Not just a parrot or a doormat. Some people (either gender) aren't ready for a relationship, so they want a greater challenge, because they really don't want to be in a committed, solid relationship anyway. But, with that statement, the girl could've just meant she didn't want a guy going along with everything she said (if he didn't actually agree, presumably, or express his own opinions). That's certainly understandable. I'd need to know more to have an opinion on that, really. Also, "not agreeing" doesn't have to mean "picking a fight." People can disagree quite civilly.
that girl Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 I always hear people say they want a challenge, whether it is when a guy is being an ******* or disrespectful in some sorts. Have you actually heard real people say they want a challenge or is this something you are getting from dating guides? A female I know said she doesn't want her boyfriend agreeing to all the stuff she says. My complaint was if that is what he genuinely wants to do or if her choice doesn't matter or effect him, why should he argue. Why should he have to pick a fight just cause. The logic about arguing is to prove a point not to just start something Okay, this could be meant a couple of ways. Yes, there are crazy people who like to constantly fight because they think it is passionate. The other way it could be meant is that she feels the guy is agreeing just to agree and not putting in much effort. Like she makes all the plans, which gets tiresome after a while, and he has no opinions, which can make him bland and hard to have a conversation with.
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