bhat_76p Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 Some one please help me with what i am feeling ,i went out with a gurl for like 3.5 years it was a long distance relationship and when she started talking to me she was getting over her ex and she seemed so true and loving and caring ,once in b\w we broke up because she thought we had no future and had to end this but we still kept on talking i kept on visiting her and there was no looking back .We broke up a year back but we still used to talk like we were together meet like we were together ,since last three months she totally changed and she feel in love with someone else but she still calls me .i screwed up every thing bcause of this relation ship i became a big dope head ,got cut off from all my friends and even screwed up my job .She was my first love and i was soo much in love with her ,i still cannot get over her still think about her all the time when she calls me my heart starts to feel the love why she still calling me when she has moved on and ****ing with me .Please get me over this pain its killing me from inside i have become so hollow
spyyder Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 (edited) Sorry bro but she's gone. Don't think that because she's calling you, that she still wants you. This is what's making you think you still have a chance...I know you didn't actually say this but I know it's what your feeling. Bro you do not have a chance and she's moved on, but you haven't, in fact you've gone downhill and thats why she still calls... because she is concerned about you, especially since you seem to be in a rut. You two did go out for a long time, so obviously she cares about you BUT DOESN'T love you anymore. You must differentiate the two! I myself still care about my exs on some level, especially when they aren't doing as well as I am (I'm happy about that lol, but I still feel bad as well). Heck, even if you knew an acquaintance you just met was in trouble...wouldn't you be concerned and try to help? You NEED to move on. You need to sort out your life. I know what your experiencing and I feel so bad just remembering it. I myself couldn't eat or sleep properly for a month when my last ex left me. I cried for hours every day and only stopped because I was sleepy or my eyes dried out. I would have lost my job too, but because I own my company it was okay for me to take off work or cry in my office, without seriously damaging my career. I know the pain is almost unbearable, especially when it seems like its not going to end and that the moment you start smiling or feeling ok, the pain comes right back. So yeah, I know your pain. I still feel small drops of the pain I had BUT I can say that you will get over it! You will feel better, and you will move on eventually bro! What you must do now i try to improve yourself, and try to just show your ex that your ok, your doing great, and perhaps you could show her that your better off without her. She may have been a great girl, but she's not for you. Don't think that you'll never get someone better, because you will! You will get someone better eventually, and I can be sure that it'll be when you least expect it. Force yourself to move on. Even if you have a chance to be with her again, you will need to move on to get it. Edited July 17, 2010 by spyyder
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