Thorgs Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 BTW, AC and smk, this pic always makes me laugh...I just found it yesterday. Maybe we should start a "Funny pictures" thread in The Water Cooler. http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y47/Thorgs/TopOff.jpg
smk Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Oh, I'm sorry. If my ex text me back I would hope it was something like, "Hi, how are you?" That way I know she's thinking of me but NC would make her realize I'm not there for her like I used to be when we were dating. Sadly, I think she's moved on. so do i - i wish that she had texted to say hello - but who cares - we are better than them - at least we know that we gave everything we could to make things work - we didnt run away at the first sign of problems, we didnt stop believing in our love for them - we stood up for what we believed in... we are the champions..... Sadly i too think that my ex has moved on too - i dont know for sure maybe she maybe she hasnt, but you know what i learnt - that my love for her is real, i didnt simply stop loving her because she left - in fact i grow to love her more everyday - not the best of things but hey we are only human....
smk Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 AC thank you for letting us officially jack your thread - lol.... i like the pic - it did make me laugh.... oh and another thing i learnt this morning - drinking 60% polish vodka does not make the pain go away it just temporarily moves it to your head.... hehehehehe
Thorgs Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 AC thank you for letting us officially jack your thread - lol.... i like the pic - it did make me laugh.... oh and another thing i learnt this morning - drinking 60% polish vodka does not make the pain go away it just temporarily moves it to your head.... hehehehehe One of the main reasons I quit drinking If I'm going to get over this pain, I'm going to do it "naturally", so that way if this ever happens again, I'll be stronger and able to deal with it better. Although, I miss a lot of those crazy drinking nights. One time back in November when it was freezing out, I left this girls house at 3, I remember getting to my street. Next thing I know I wake up 3 hours later, I'm parked in my yard, windows down, sunroof open, heat blasting, music going, and car still running, HAHA!
smk Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 One of the main reasons I quit drinking If I'm going to get over this pain, I'm going to do it "naturally", so that way if this ever happens again, I'll be stronger and able to deal with it better. Although, I miss a lot of those crazy drinking nights. One time back in November when it was freezing out, I left this girls house at 3, I remember getting to my street. Next thing I know I wake up 3 hours later, I'm parked in my yard, windows down, sunroof open, heat blasting, music going, and car still running, HAHA! i was having one of those nights last night - and had way too much energy and hence i thought a nightcap would do me good - it didnt help...LOL... i do need to quit the booze though... yeah i know what you mean about preparing yourself just in case you end up feeling this pain again - but god forbid any of us have to deal with this again.... i would wish this on my worst enemy... hehehehe - legendary - we never really did the drinking thing together - we had both been heavy drinkers, partied alot, and live like a "rockstar" if you know what i mean and we both realised it wasnt the best of life styles and somehow we when we did get together we were both at this point where we didnt really drink much... but yeah i know those nights - i have had quite a few over the last 5 weekends - partying till 6 am - and doing some crazy stuff....
smk Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 AC & thorgs i have some more music for you - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swTrjqOpdrs http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-A-4NQfFRs listen to the second and third one - i warn you they are serious tear jerkers... listen to in EMERGENCY ONLY WHEN YOU MUST CRY.... lol
Thorgs Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Good songs, but I try not to listen to the sad ones. I try listening to the upbeat ones...otherwise my mind will just linger on her. This video is truly amazing...(not music)
smk Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 *sneaks in* *runs out*;) good song..... PS - AC has officially allowed us to jack his thread - LOL... I think he is now one of the co-conspirators of the jacking....hehehehe
smk Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Good songs, but I try not to listen to the sad ones. I try listening to the upbeat ones...otherwise my mind will just linger on her. This video is truly amazing...(not music) the secret - i think its one of the books i told you about - life is all about the laws of attraction... we attract what we want - we just need to truly believe in it... (ex's dont count though) LOL.... Shockingly sad songs actually make me feel better - i dont know why - its kinda random but they do... happy songs put me on a downer though... I am weird dude...
Thorgs Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 the secret - i think its one of the books i told you about - life is all about the laws of attraction... we attract what we want - we just need to truly believe in it... (ex's dont count though) LOL.... Shockingly sad songs actually make me feel better - i dont know why - its kinda random but they do... happy songs put me on a downer though... I am weird dude... Hmm, that's interesting. I think it's because the happy songs probably make you think of the good times you and your ex had. That's how it was for me for a while. Now the good songs make me feel happier and the sad ones I just skip. Give it time
smk Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Hmm, that's interesting. I think it's because the happy songs probably make you think of the good times you and your ex had. That's how it was for me for a while. Now the good songs make me feel happier and the sad ones I just skip. Give it time yeah i think thats it - i seem to want to dwell in my misery for a little while longer - i think i am afraid that if i become happy then I will lose whatever I have left of the relationship and will have somehow let myself (or her) down... the human mind is too freakin complex... i know there is a thread about this somewhere here on LS...
Thorgs Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 yeah i think thats it - i seem to want to dwell in my misery for a little while longer - i think i am afraid that if i become happy then I will lose whatever I have left of the relationship and will have somehow let myself (or her) down... the human mind is too freakin complex... i know there is a thread about this somewhere here on LS... Well, look at it like this...move on, but don't go out and get a new relationship (right away). That way you can improve yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, etc. If she decides to come crawling back, then you will be so much better prepared...and if she's changed for the better then awesome! If she hasn't and you have, then she will know it for sure. It's not giving up on her, it's more of not giving up on yourself...if that makes sense.
Author AlwaysConflicted Posted July 22, 2010 Author Posted July 22, 2010 It's like the boys club in here. I listened to most of the songs posted and they are pretty SAD! Although the picture with "take ur top off" redeemed everything because it made me laugh.
Thorgs Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 It's like the boys club in here. I listened to most of the songs posted and they are pretty SAD! Although the picture with "take ur top off" redeemed everything because it made me laugh. Gotta listen to the happy stuff! I always like finding funny pics...it relieves a lot of this emotion.
smk Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 Well, look at it like this...move on, but don't go out and get a new relationship (right away). That way you can improve yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, etc. If she decides to come crawling back, then you will be so much better prepared...and if she's changed for the better then awesome! If she hasn't and you have, then she will know it for sure. It's not giving up on her, it's more of not giving up on yourself...if that makes sense. yeah i know where you are coming from.... I have realised that i really need to work on improving on how i deal with emotions - its just that all of this falling in love, breaking up is all so new to me - i have never had to deal with it before... i miss her - i really do... as the saying goes you never know what you have until you dont have it anymore... not that i am saying i mistreated her or was a bad BF - its just that I really wish i was with her... i remember that when i used to be having a bad day, or hadnt slept well at night or was ill, anything for that matter, and thinking of her, hearing voice seeing her, made me feel better - it made me forget all my worries and happy that i had someone so great in my life... i really miss her today - i dont know why... i just wish i could call her, and hug her and just hold her there... see that look she used to have in her eyes when she told me she loved me... i would give anything to feel that again, to hear those 3 words again....
Thorgs Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 i really miss her today - i dont know why... i just wish i could call her, and hug her and just hold her there... see that look she used to have in her eyes when she told me she loved me... i would give anything to feel that again, to hear those 3 words again.... Yeah, today is a bad day for me too. On top of it, work was canceled because the building has no power so now I'm just sitting at home all day with nothing to do.
Gettingtired Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 This is a great little tune; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bhip6_ynBn0
smk Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 yeah today has definately been a strange one - its been a great day at work but all i did was think about her - wanted to call her and tell her how great things went at work and then i remembered whats the point... i dont even know how to describe what i am feeling today... its complete emptiness and hollowness.... its like i am a walking talking shell with nothing inside of me....
smk Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 listen to the last the last 45 seconds - that describes it all for me...
Thorgs Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1-25s4uwFQ The full 4 minutes is what's happening in my head right now...
smk Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1-25s4uwFQ The full 4 minutes is what's happening in my head right now... How was the (gay) drive and walk in the park??? LOL... (just kidding about the gay thing - i have been taking lots of walks in the park - and the sight of half naked girls isnt too bad either).... try this though: learnt a pretty nifty trick yesterday - if you are ever feeling depressed and down in the dumps - look up at the ceiling and smile - it confuses your body and somehow takes you out of the down mood because your mind is confused and you are smiling it sends the signal to your brain that you are happy...
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