oldfashiongirlie Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 Hi, I would like to know your opinion about my very confusing (at least to me) situation. I met him 4 years ago, and we dated for a couple of months, and then started the most amazing long distance relationship, everything was great, we talked pretty much every day, I met his family and friends, and he seemed to be very commited. So in february 2009 he proposed, and I was truly in heaven!, everything was awesome, we never really fought, during our 3 1/2 year relationship. I must admit, the wedding plans came out to be so stressfull, we didn't seem to be getting anywhere, cause of long distance, living in different countries. The paper work for a mexican marrying an american sucks. So back in november 09, he said he was unsure about marriage, and I snapped, I couldn't believe he would change his mind just like that. I decided to go and be with him for a good solid month in january, to see if we could work stuff out being together, i got the month off work, and I was really pushing it, i didn't want to be apart or break up. But in new years eve, he just forgot to call me, he forgot to give me a quick happy new years call, me the one he was planning to be with for the rest of his life. So i decided it was not worth it for me to be giving my all, to go see him for an entire month. So i broke up with him. Anyways long story short, I found out just one week after breaking up, he went to miami with this random girl. I was devastated to say the least. I feel so betrayed, now 7 months after, he is trying to get back together. He says that girl, meant nothing, and that he made a huge mistake. All this getting me back together has been by email. I am not sure what I should do. Cause I have a heart-mind conflict. Please help! And thanks for reading this huge post
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