datura_noir Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 I don't post here or read here too much....just a personal quirk. But I have noticed, and correct me if I'm wrong, but most of the infidelity and QW problems are because some stinkin' man is "on the fence". Well, given my husbands past, and seeing all of these tragic postings, why should some homosapien with a peni%$$$ be ruling the show?? I know for sure MY H does NOT have the golden wang, so IF there is a next time, he's out!!! I no longer care to triangulate and fulfill his objective therein. Why such angst over a stinking man???? ETA: I fully welcome OM and the "stinkin' woman" factor.....
Gfkr2 Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 It's good to be pissed at him. He deserves to know you are angry and hurt. Did you tell him in no uncertain terms what will happen if there is a "next time"? Btw, there are many cheating wives that think nothing of ruining the M and family life by having sex. I discovered my WW is a 2x cheater and continues to have sex with a OMM. I intend to divorce her pathetic arse because the was a "next time". There are many og us that feel you pain. Hang in...but never forget.
Woman In Blue Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 I honestly don't know because I wouldn't WANT a man who is "torn" between me and someone else. I have way too much pride to allow myself to be in that position. I could never sit in limbo waiting for the man I love to "choose" between me and someone else. The assface should have never gotten into a position like this in the first place, where a decision like this would even be on the table. And if he ever got another woman pregnant, I'd be GONE so freakin fast his head would spin. That is NOT negotiable. I cannot fathom how a betrayed wife stays with a man who has an OC - and they choose visitation, etc. etc. I just don't know how they even deal with that. My hat is off to the betrayeds of the world. You're much braver than I because all of the scenarios above are deal-breakers for me and I'd be packed and gone within 2 weeks. To me, it's harder to STAY than to leave.
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