messymichelle Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 so i move,changed my number, redirected his mail got my sis to drop off the kids, he rings the babysitter for my new num, she gives it to him, bitch!!! anyway he would have got his post today at his mums, his business is going under because i refused to have anything more to do with it as he put it before he left,"its in my name, its mine" (even though i ran it for him, we werent married) this evening he sends a text asking if the kids are ok, i ignore it, he responds with i know this is your new num gemma gave it to me i reply with - the kids are fine, but you already know that, i changed my number for a reason, you left me now can you not let me be for a while im not ready to be friends he replies with im not ok but r u? wtf??? i know that he is drinking im not stalking my friend works in the pub hes in now and i was surposed to meet her she texted to say his is in there with his new gf, so i didnt bother going out, i dont want to meet them together im not near ready for that. i mean ive blocked fb, ive stopped posting for crying out loud ive moved and changed my number, what does he want from me??? i mean he is out with her yet texting me??? why does it feel like ive no control? he never bothered with the kids or me all week since i messed up last week and let him spend the night, he didnt bother at all so why is he bothering now??? i didnt reply to the last text and he didnt text back( hes prob pissed he would be drinking 6 hours now lol) yet tomorrow he wont even let on that he texted, what do you guys think ??? whats he playing at???
wrencn Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 trying to keep you as the backup in case the new girl doesn't work out. He obviously can't be alone. Don't reply to his text.
spriggig Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 When girls leave, they do it after thinking long and hard, burning bridges and tearing down the relationship behind the guy's back then they walk out and don't look back (at least not right away). When guys leave they do it on a whim and don't really think it through. They'll leave a reasonably stable relationship intact and try to keep the lines of communication open. Women pull back hard on the bow, take aim and let the arrow fly. Men sort of toss the arrow on the ground and hope no one steps on it before they come back round to dust it off. Men suck at breaking up. Sounds like he still loves you, still wants you and regrets his actions. He knows he messed up bad and is depressed that you won't have him back. From what you've described of him, I don't think you should take him back.
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