Username37 Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 I see my ex girlfriend. Just chilling. I'm taking summer classes at my school. Went out for break, and who do I see? My ex. I was so surprised and shocked. She didn't sign up for summer classes. I'm not over her, as you all may know. So I totally left, didn't wave at her, didn't say nothing. Nothing. She didn't even notice me. But I think my friends told her I was there so idk. Was this the right thing to do? Ignore her? I'm on NC so I did that. Or should I at least said hi? Seeing her really bugged me. Like I still have feeling for her, but I can't look at her. Especially all she did AFTER the break up (check out my previous threads for details.) It's weird. I love her, but I don't want to see her.
alphamale Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 Or should I at least said hi? why would u even acknowledge her existence?
skydiveaddict Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 why would u even acknowledge her existence? I agree with this
Author Username37 Posted July 16, 2010 Author Posted July 16, 2010 I don't know guys. I'm one of those guys who feels bad for not saying hi to someone. Then again. She did treat me like **** after the break up...
alphamale Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 Then again. She did treat me like **** after the break up... just focus on that
hurt and devastated Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 It's weird. I love her, but I don't want to see her. Could it be that you're finally starting to get over her? I think a while back if you were in that situation, you would have at least said something to her. That could be a good sign.
Author Username37 Posted July 17, 2010 Author Posted July 17, 2010 Could it be that you're finally starting to get over her? I think a while back if you were in that situation, you would have at least said something to her. That could be a good sign. I don't know. Maybe. She's still in my thoughts and that hope that she'll come back is still there. Although I haven't been tempted to contact her on FB or on my phone. Plus I can think about the good times we had without breaking down.
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 I sorta get where you're coming from. I just looked at some photos of my ex and I for the first time since the break up more than 3 months ago now (I saw them by accident). I couldn't even look at them. For one, he ruined every photo of the two of us. Secondly, he's so ugly and hurt me so much I wanted to throw up. I get it. I think you might be at hatred. Congratulations.
Author Username37 Posted July 17, 2010 Author Posted July 17, 2010 I sorta get where you're coming from. I just looked at some photos of my ex and I for the first time since the break up more than 3 months ago now (I saw them by accident). I couldn't even look at them. For one, he ruined every photo of the two of us. Secondly, he's so ugly and hurt me so much I wanted to throw up. I get it. I think you might be at hatred. Congratulations. I saw some of my old photographs too. She was fat. But I didn't care. I loved her no matter what. When she started to lose weight, that's when the change happened for the worse. Do I hate her? I hate what she became. But I know deep down, she's still the sweet, friendly girl I fell in love with. So I guess that's why I'm still in love with her. I'm bleh I know haha
Author Username37 Posted July 18, 2010 Author Posted July 18, 2010 Okay. There might be a chance I'll see her tomorrow or some other time this week. Avoid? Or approach?
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