SummerLady Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 I am divorced and have an ex that can be a huge pain in the butt. He has gotten better I must say. But has been a pain in the past. Please note I have only been divorced for 2 years. My SO has been divorced triple that and his ex is still a pain and a drain. I feel after 7 years this should still not be going on. I made a comment to him which I thought was fair and he said hey your ex is still a problem sometimes. Hey my divorce is much more recent than yours and fresh.. Plus he was legally seperated way before divorced so let's say he has not been with this person for 10 -11years. Yes I know the kids make it more difficult but I do not feel that was a fair comparison at all. Part of the problem is I don't really want to hear about the issue. He said she is not bothering him anymore at this moment but do I need a play by play. I don't give one most of the time. I know this is apart of dating someone divorced with kids but maybe I am immature or demanding on an issue I can't change. My situation is far from perfect but I can't take it when I have it in my face. I don't know just venting!!
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