saddy Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 I've been with my girlfriend for more than a year now and it's been a week that she is acting distant. I feel that it really started last week. She began to ask me what my projects were, where I wanted to live, etc. That kinda freaked me out as I hadn't really thought about it. She then complained that I don't talk about my plans. After that, she went home for the weekend to attend a wedding and when she came back, she was acting distant. I also learned that her best friend just broke up with her boyfriend. Now I fear a domino effect... I feel that we've always had a problem of communication, that we are not saying what we really are feeling. Part of the problem is obviously me. We never talked about feelings in my family and I have a hard time to open up. Probably the fear of rejection. Also maybe our relationship has kinda taken the way of the daily routine. I love her and want to make it work. I just don't know what to do... I'm really afraid she's gonna dump me. My last girlfriend did that without me seeing anything coming.
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