melowoman Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 I was married to my husband for 23 years. I found out he was having a relationship with a former co-worker. I tried everything to save my marriage, I just wanted him to stop calling her, texting her, seeing her but he wouldn't. I threatened to divorce him if he didn't stop communicating with her. So, one year ago, I moved out and we decided to stay friends after the divorce. We saw each other once in awhile and he would do things for me like change my oil in my car and put up pictures etc. Oh, by the way, he married the other woman soon after our divorce was final. He now says he is miserable and just married her so he would have enough money to keep the house. He wants me back and for some strange reason, I kind of want him. I'm not sure how or why my feelings have changed. I really miss being married and having a man around. Originally, I thought I would be able to date and find a better man to be with but I'm 52 and not a beauty - tried online dating with no sucess at all and am not a social person so don't meet many single men. I'm lonely and I guess it feels good to have a man want me again. We have been chatting on Yahoo at night after his wife goes to sleep. I don't know how I have gotten sucked in by him again. What should I do?
califnan Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 I was married to my husband for 23 years. I found out he was having a relationship with a former co-worker. I tried everything to save my marriage, I just wanted him to stop calling her, texting her, seeing her but he wouldn't. I threatened to divorce him if he didn't stop communicating with her. So, one year ago, I moved out and we decided to stay friends after the divorce. We saw each other once in awhile and he would do things for me like change my oil in my car and put up pictures etc. Oh, by the way, he married the other woman soon after our divorce was final. He now says he is miserable and just married her so he would have enough money to keep the house. He wants me back and for some strange reason, I kind of want him. I'm not sure how or why my feelings have changed. I really miss being married and having a man around. Originally, I thought I would be able to date and find a better man to be with but I'm 52 and not a beauty - tried online dating with no sucess at all and am not a social person so don't meet many single men. I'm lonely and I guess it feels good to have a man want me again. We have been chatting on Yahoo at night after his wife goes to sleep. I don't know how I have gotten sucked in by him again. What should I do? -------------------- Take it slowly honey .. You deserve to have your husband back - but the ball is in his court .. Also, be sure you want him back for the right reasons..
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