PixieStix Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 (edited) Well a little background. My bf and I of 3 years broke up a month ago. He said he was not in love with me and that the physical attraction was not there any longer and it had happened gradually over time due to some personal issues which I am currently working through. We have made progress enough to become friends. I still live in our apartment as does he, due to financial reasons. I knew he had been "talking" to a woman for few days and was okay with it. Wished him well even though it was hard. He told me that he was moving on and that it was going well with her, he had known her casually through a friend at work for a few months. She had been living with someone while she was trying to get her own place. My ex came home from work tonight and informed me he was moving in with her in the morning and proceeded to pack his bags. The odd thing is she needed a deposit for her new place and it was his pay day today. She has 4 kids that she shares custody with her ex. She had been telling him that she "wanted him to spend more time with her at her place" and now he has to come up with $225 to cover the deposit. He sincerely likes her and I don't want to see him used because I do still love him and did ask him to work things out. Somewhere I am thinking she is not really all that interested in him as much as she is wanting to get her rent paid. At least now I can get my NC that I was really needing so that I can get some space to clear my head and he can too. Is it just me or does that seem a little strange to anyone else? Thanks guys! Edited July 16, 2010 by PixieStix More clarification
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