pinkie_fille Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 1. a very beautiful girl who doesn't love you. (She has a bf) But you love her so much because you like her physical appearance ( blond hair, blue eyes, tanned skin) and her personaltiy. (She is like a dream girl) 2. a normal looking girl who loves you so much. You love her too because she is your gf. But you love her less than the first girl because you don't like her physical apperance and her personality. (She is a girl whom you can be sure about her love for you)
oldfashiongirlie Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 well what do you want? Someone who will commit and you know will be loyal to you? or someone who is great but you're not sure if she will be on the long run? Just remember looks fade away eventually.
bananaboat11 Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 The #1's are usually stupid. As Ron White would say, "You can't fix stupid". #2 please.
LostLamb Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 1. a very beautiful girl who doesn't love you. (She has a bf) But you love her so much because you like her physical appearance ( blond hair, blue eyes, tanned skin) and her personaltiy. (She is like a dream girl) 2. a normal looking girl who loves you so much. You love her too because she is your gf. But you love her less than the first girl because you don't like her physical apperance and her personality. (She is a girl whom you can be sure about her love for you) Why choose either:confused:? The first girl might sound perfect but if someone doesn't love you it will be horrible unless willing to put up with someone using you . They will eventually leave when someone "better" comes along or will cheat behind your back . The second girl might love you but if you not attracted to her physically or personality wise then surely she is just a friend? Life sucks but there are more than two people in the world so my advice would be to find a woman who you like and love and who will return it. Are men really this shallow and silly when it comes to love?!
kalikula Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 If you don't like your "gf"'s personality or physical appearance, then good luck! Either chase after the girl you're actually attracted to or find someone even better.
WithOrWithoutYou Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 (edited) Neither 1. No matter how beautiful a girl is, if she doesn't want to be with you, and instead chooses to be with someone else, you don't want to be with her. A relationship is only any good if both people want to be with each other. 2. Physical appearance is somewhat overrated, although there has to be a physical attraction. The concerning thing about girl #2 is that the personality is not good. You don't want to be with a girl if you don't like her personality, even if she is really into you. I think both of these two are non-starters. The girl that someone wants to be with is a girl that is good looking enough to be attractive (subject to personal tastes), has a good personality, is honest and trustworthy (without that you have nothing), and most importantly, wants to be with the other person as much as the other person wants to be with her. No one should settle for less. Edited July 17, 2010 by WithOrWithoutYou
Feelin Frisky Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 Since I can't get girl #1 as she is otherwise committed, it is perfectly fine to have a real life with someone less physically appealing who actually loves you AND fantasize about the iconic beauty you'll never get to really know. Just don't be a jerk about it and tell girl number two every detail that goes through your mind. Sometimes people have to psych themselves up to get orgasmic and that's not a sin or a betrayal. It's only screwed up if one doesn't have the decency to keep dark secrets like that, dark.
Pyro Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 neither. Become single until you happen to come across a woman who loves you and who you find irresistable.
carhill Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 A healthy man wouldn't 'love' #1 so, either he's unhealthy or #2 is the correct answer. I'm actually leaning towards unhealthy here, TBH Perhaps you're confusing 'girls I wanna f*ck' with 'love'. There's a big difference, from a male's perspective.
Sanman Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 (edited) I'm a realist. The only answers are #2 or none of the above. If you are confident in your ability to date/mate, then go find a woman that meets your needs. If not, realize that #2 is likely the best you will do and do your best to make it work. #1 is not love but infatuation as it differs in no way from masturbating to a Megan Fox poster. Either one is only yours in your imagination. Are you girl#2? Edited July 17, 2010 by Sanman
Cracker Jack Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 If I absolutely had to pick, it would be #2. However, I would choose neither.
Untouchable_Fire Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 1. a very beautiful girl who doesn't love you. (She has a bf) But you love her so much because you like her physical appearance ( blond hair, blue eyes, tanned skin) and her personaltiy. (She is like a dream girl) 2. a normal looking girl who loves you so much. You love her too because she is your gf. But you love her less than the first girl because you don't like her physical apperance and her personality. (She is a girl whom you can be sure about her love for you) Why would I waste my energy on someone who won't return my feelings? The vast majority of men will choose #2. Only the delusional headcases accept your first scenario. Speaking of which... what prompts this post? Are you having issues with your BF wanting someone else?
BBG Posted July 17, 2010 Posted July 17, 2010 If the guy loves a girl, he will most likely accepts the way she is. Be it her appearance or her personality. It is who he is in love WITH.
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