johnny_w Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 It's been.. Almost a month since our break up. Of course getting back up again was by far the most hardest thing, I was told to take It day by day I already knew things would get better. Surely but very slowly what happens Is the new emotions you feel from the start of a break up slowly fade. I went from crying alot, grieving, feeling sorry for myself to who I am now, cheerful, motivated, optimistic and confident. But because Its still only a month since the break up I do still have those moments when my heart sinks In or sitting on my bed with my hands over my face. I know I'm not fully over her but the past month has been.. long. I ended up getting a Job which was good but 1 week In and I got sacked didn't have enough experience. I've had alot of time to think about "Was It really worth it?" "What could've happened If we had stayed together?" things like that and now It's "What should I really be doing?" I've been hanging out with mates going to parties I've had quite a few laughs, the busier I am the better. But, as soon as I come home to where me and her used to always be together.. It SUCKS A**! Because At home there are stuff all distractions, no friends Just a stupid bed where she once lay. But I'm not giving up I know why I needed her and I know what I need to do to make sure I don't have to need anyone else like that again.
mikezombie777 Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 You seem to be doing good man. Keep it up, things will get easier as you know. One thing I suggest is moving your furniture around and such - it may sound silly but it'll detach you from the memories a little bit. Also try moving your bed to a different position or something. A relationship is never really a waste of time, because you can take lessons from it and make future relationships better. Theoretics are all well & good, but nothing beats experience. Hang in their bro. You seem to be on the right track : )
Recommended Posts