2sure Posted August 27, 2010 Posted August 27, 2010 Well, I am divorcing also but I think that with many many couples...infidelity can successfully be over come. I really do.
NoIDidn't Posted August 30, 2010 Posted August 30, 2010 LD, please don't defend yourself as it would completely derail this thread, on such an interesting topic. I felt as a previous poster did for a while (can't remember who it was since I didn't quote them) and the sex was great initially and then I just cut it off cold as the thought of him kissing me with the lips he kissed her with was too disgusting. It wasn't until I let go of past resentments that I allowed myself (and him) the pleasure of just kissing again (you can have sex without kissing, lol). Forgiveness and acceptance will come in handy throughout a marriage, so be glad to have experience with them now. Falling in and out of love with a long-term partner is very common.
Author ladydesigner Posted August 31, 2010 Author Posted August 31, 2010 LD, please don't defend yourself as it would completely derail this thread, on such an interesting topic. I felt as a previous poster did for a while (can't remember who it was since I didn't quote them) and the sex was great initially and then I just cut it off cold as the thought of him kissing me with the lips he kissed her with was too disgusting. It wasn't until I let go of past resentments that I allowed myself (and him) the pleasure of just kissing again (you can have sex without kissing, lol). Forgiveness and acceptance will come in handy throughout a marriage, so be glad to have experience with them now. Falling in and out of love with a long-term partner is very common. Thank you for your words they mean a lot to me!
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