Gerrard Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 I'm gonna spin it for u quick. Known this girl since high school through some extracurricular program. All through highschool she has been with only one guy, her first most likely. We talked but I new she was unavailable so I didn't persue. After graduation we went r separate ways but we kept in touch here in there through online. Fast forward today, it's been three years since I last saw her. Three months ago we started communicating again through email. I stopped chatting for a while but then she emailed me her number to text n stuff. About 4 weeks ago we chatted n she told be she was going through a seperation which shocked me cuz I didn't see it coming. She had been with this guy for like 5-6 years; probably her only boyfriend ever. I avoided the subject of her ex and saw an opportunity to be close with her. About a week later I decided to invite her to a concert n I could tell she was excited cuz it was one of her favorite bands. Remember i hadnt seen her in four years. We went to the concert, had fun, got comfortable holding each other but didn't persue her further because she was fresh out of that long relationship. After the concert we started texting n calling each other almost daily. A week after our first encounter, I invite her somewhere n she says yes. About 30 minutes before I'm ready to pick her up, she calls me telling me she got in a big argument with her father over her now ex boyfriend n she simply said she was not in the mood to go out. Tells me if I still wanted to go out we could do something the next day. Next day comes n I decide I want to go bowling. I invite her but she says she needs to study for her driving test which I new was a real thing. I sort of made her feel like I was disappointed at her. She then tells me she likes me alot, she doesn't want to lead me on or break my heart, she has love for me (what does that mean?), she likes hanging out with me (what? We only went out once) n the dreaded she is not ready for something serious because she is still trying to end her last one. The only thing I needed was for her to tell me she want to be only friends. I let her know how I felt, I understood she needs time to heal but that if she really liked me she should show more effort n trying to hang out more. She understood where I was coming from n practically said yes to everything I had to say. That conversation took place 5 days ago. I texted her the next day telling her I hope we see each other soon so we could talk more profoundly. It's been three days since I have made contact with her. I use to send her sweet texts morning n night letting her know I was thinking of her but I stopped doing that. I don't know my next move or what she is thinking about. I want to ask her out again tmrw but I sense that she might let me down again. To me, I know this girl is worth pursuing but want to know if she is gonna be ready. I can take it slow but will it be fruitful in the end or is she a lost cause? Remember she is trying to rebuild her life cuz that other guy spoiled her into practically being a housewife.
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