EyeAlone Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 When you're going on your first date, would you rather the guy pick the girl up at her house or meet up at the destination? Would your answer change if it was someone that you met on an online dating site? Just wondering because I'm in that predicament. Thanks!
MrNate Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 Pft, I would definitely bring my white horse to your house and pick you up. From there we shall ride away into a night of romance.
Author EyeAlone Posted July 15, 2010 Author Posted July 15, 2010 Pft, I would definitely bring my white horse to your house and pick you up. From there we shall ride away into a night of romance.And I would love that, not going to lie. So yeah, this guy said he could pick me up or meet up at the restaurant. I'll be honest, I looked this guy on Facebook and he's legit so safety isn't really the issue. I'm just worried that it would be weird and awkward. I've never had the guy pick me up on the first date. Also my apartment is gated and there's no code so the date could start off as a disaster.
Star Gazer Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 You should NEVER EVER EVER have someone you met on an online dating site pick you up at your home on the first date. Ever.
that girl Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 While I appreciate it if the guy offers, I don't get in cars with strangers.
Art_Critic Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 Always meet for the first time in a public place.. like a restaurant.. Never allow anybody access to your private personal life or home till you know you can trust them.. Many a people have had to deal with things thru restraining orders and such because they let someone they didn't trust yet know too much about them and it didn't go well and the other person couldn't handle rejection.
threebyfate Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 Depends. If the guy is someone you've known for awhile or someone that trusted sources can vouch for, then in the past, the preference was for the guy to pick me up. If you're meeting the guy for the first time, knowing nothing about him, especially from an online site, meet in a public place as suggested by AC.
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