southernrose77 Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 ive been married for 12 years to a wonderful guy. i met a girl about a year ago who ive been talking to alot. how do i know if its a really close friendship or an emotional affair? i have weird feelings for her. we dont go out. we just talk on the phone and text often everyday. but if she wanted to go out, i would. oh no...help!
Bryanp Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 How would you feel if the roles were reversed with your wonderful husband and he had feelings for another guy? Maybe you should be open and honest with your husband about your feelings right now.
Spark1111 Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 ive been married for 12 years to a wonderful guy. i met a girl about a year ago who ive been talking to alot. how do i know if its a really close friendship or an emotional affair? i have weird feelings for her. we dont go out. we just talk on the phone and text often everyday. but if she wanted to go out, i would. oh no...help! Southern, women can and do have very strong emotional connections with other women all the time. It's okay. But only you know IF it is crossing a line that will effect your marriage. And IF you feel it WOULD/COULD if you saw each other face-to-face, ask yourself this question: What does she give me that I do not receive from my spouse? Figure it out. And then go home and ask for it. More intimacy? A strong emotional connection? Fun?
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