Nikki Sahagin Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 The latest hurdle that my ex is forcing me to jump is this; after changing from Mr Perfect to Mr Evil, dumping me twice and rubbing in a new interest he is now slamming me on facebook and to our mutual friends. I've deleted the friends that have taken his side without even talking to me - i've realised they are below me. But should I speak to him? Defend myself? Speak my mind? Or is my loss of friendship, silence and disapearance a greater poison? I just want my life back and some peace. I'm ready to be rid of him forever.
lunita Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 He's doing it to get a reaction. Actually be flattered he's taking the time to raise such a stink. It means he's not indifferent which is worse than hate or love! Silence is golden.
kelsmommy Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 I agree. It took me a long while, but it'll safe your sanity if you just keep quiet. I just spend a week and a half suffering because I stood up for myself, and trust me, it's not worth the trouble. Let him huff and puff, he won't blow your house down! Not if you won't let him!
spriggig Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 I think you're supposed to put your hand up, turn your head away, roll your eyes and say "Whuteva!" So, yeah...do that.
Username37 Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 I would. But the smart thing to do is to let him do all the smack talking. Once he finds out YOU haven't been doing any of that. He'll feel like **** and he'll feel immature...and maybe even apologize. My ex is talking smack about me. I know it. I'll let her be. Pfft...calling ME immature haha
rager Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 Just ignore all that ****, it makes you the better person - you're above it all.
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