Blue6 Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 Wish my EX congrats for finishing her masters degree?
Author Blue6 Posted July 14, 2010 Author Posted July 14, 2010 my closure. she ended our relationship when she was working on it and I just feel the need to acknowledge it. I quit facebook and have no connection to her in anyway, not to mention she is 2500 miles away. While she turned into a lot of things after we were together I don't hate her. She can't hurt me anymore and I don't have time to waste wondering if she'll come back or feel anymore hurt. So to answer your question, the benefit is respectfully acknowledging a milestone in her life and leaving it at that. I already wrote it out and will send it if I feel compelled to, or just leave it in my inbox to collect cyber dust....
DenverBachelor Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 my closure. she ended our relationship when she was working on it and I just feel the need to acknowledge it. I quit facebook and have no connection to her in anyway, not to mention she is 2500 miles away. While she turned into a lot of things after we were together I don't hate her. She can't hurt me anymore and I don't have time to waste wondering if she'll come back or feel anymore hurt. So to answer your question, the benefit is respectfully acknowledging a milestone in her life and leaving it at that. I already wrote it out and will send it if I feel compelled to, or just leave it in my inbox to collect cyber dust.... There is no good reason to congratulate her. You shouldn't even care at this point. The real reason you want to congratulate her is to open communication channels with her in an attempt to get answers to your lingering questions. The only thing you need to know is that she called it quits. That's it. That's your closure.
northstar1 Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 my closure. she ended our relationship when she was working on it and I just feel the need to acknowledge it. I quit facebook and have no connection to her in anyway, not to mention she is 2500 miles away. While she turned into a lot of things after we were together I don't hate her. She can't hurt me anymore and I don't have time to waste wondering if she'll come back or feel anymore hurt. So to answer your question, the benefit is respectfully acknowledging a milestone in her life and leaving it at that. I already wrote it out and will send it if I feel compelled to, or just leave it in my inbox to collect cyber dust.... Sorry, but contacting her is the opposite of closure. It's ripping the bloody door off the hinges. How will congratulating her on something in her life bring YOU closure? Esp. if she ignores your note? You are no longer part of her life and she in yours, she deserves no such warm wishes from you. I get where you are coming from, but it is an excuse for you to reach out to her and it will do you no good at all. Don't fool yourself that it will bring closure.
DustySaltus Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 If I fire you from your job, do you come back and congratulate me when I get a promotion? Think about it. Congratulate yourself for not being a quitter and focus your energies on yourself and people who care about you.
This Hurts Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 If I fire you from your job, do you come back and congratulate me when I get a promotion? THAT is a good one.
DenverBachelor Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 If I fire you from your job, do you come back and congratulate me when I get a promotion? Do I get my old job back?
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