spots94 Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 I have been separated from my H for 2 weeks, he wants his space and in the mean time we are going to work on ourselves and no dating. We have 2 kids together and because of this I see him almost on a daily basis, because I watch the kids while he is working. I am trying to find a part time job soon especially if we end up divorced I need to have some income, we are living separtely right now me at my dads him at the house. As he sees it now he doesn't think it will be like it was before and will probably end in divorce. I have lost his trust from money problems there was no cheating or anything like that I have been faithful to him and will continue to be until I know it will for sure end in divorce, I don't want to make things wose than they are. Because of thie daily contact with him, I want to give him his space like he wants. So basically when I see him I should just say nothing really unless its about the kids correct? And should I just let him come to me, I don't want to call him or anything unless its necessary. Also if you make him upset about something little for example he was gone at work so my kids and I stopped by to walk our dogs that are there. I didn't know he was gonna come home for lunch and he got upset that I didn't call, I realize now that I should of but didn't think of it at the time. Should I aplogixe to him for it or just let it be?
spriggig Posted July 15, 2010 Posted July 15, 2010 ...he was gone at work so my kids and I stopped by to walk our dogs that are there. I didn't know he was gonna come home for lunch and he got upset that I didn't call, I realize now that I should of but didn't think of it at the time. Should I aplogixe to him for it or just let it be? LC is the same as NC except you allow contact about the important, mutual interests. Your kids, shared money interests, major sickness in the family including mutual pets, death in the family, important mail he may receive, etc. Just keep it strictly business. Shut him down as soon as you find him rambling on about daily life or asking questions about your personal life. You could apologize the next time you see him about other business, just keep it sincere and short. It's a small misunderstanding, don't let it become anything more and promise to call before coming over in the future.
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