futureproof Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 (edited) I was really close friends with this girl who I knew for a year as seniors, but I had greater feelings for her that she didn't have for me. I never outright asked her, but it came out in bits and the responses told me she didn't feel that way. But we still carried on as close friends and nothing really changed. Now it's been almost a year and a half since we last even saw each other or spoke to each other. I didn't, because I thought I should try to move on from her. But what gets me thinking is that she hasn't even tried to get in contact with me; not even a friendly text saying hi. I've kind of moved on, in that I know nothing will happen beyond being friends, but I just want to see how she's doing and just talk again just as friends, because we had fun together. But if she hasn't even thought about me in this huge gap, is there any point? She got a job and was busy at that, so she has most definitely moved on. And what would I say after two years of NC, that wouldn't sound completely forced or out of the blue? Or should I just carry on with NC and leave it to the past? Was I just her fun for that year, who got swept under the carpet for her, but still holds importance for me? Does she even care? Edited July 14, 2010 by futureproof
DenverBachelor Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 Why are you looking back to your past and not looking ahead to your future? She's gone, man. Whether she has thought about you or not is inconsequential to your life right now because she is completely removed from it. Don't mess with the past. Let the past be and move on with your life. Nobody should ever hold so much power over you that you really care what they're doing or where they are in their life because you have your own fun times of exploration ahead.
Author futureproof Posted July 14, 2010 Author Posted July 14, 2010 Why are you looking back to your past and not looking ahead to your future? She's gone, man. Whether she has thought about you or not is inconsequential to your life right now because she is completely removed from it. Don't mess with the past. Let the past be and move on with your life. Nobody should ever hold so much power over you that you really care what they're doing or where they are in their life because you have your own fun times of exploration ahead. I've tried to look ahead, but it's hard. I keep thinking about her and I can't stop myself. Thanks for the advice anyway.
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