shabookittie Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 My husband and I have been seperated since last summer. Due to finances and kids, "he" has chosen to remain in our home. He has taken over the guest room. He asked his best bud to visit a few months ago. I was hesitant but dealt with it. It was arranged without/before my involvement. I was backed into a corner basically. I was very uncomfortable and made my husband aware of it. My husband gave his friend the guest room while he slept on the couch. So, he has invited his best bud to visit once again. And I am furious! Why can't this guy get a room!? We have several economy hotels surrounding our home...I would never invite my girlfriend to stay, nor would she take me up on it if I did given the situation! He is asking this friend, his sole confidant, to face me...and our children in our home...while our home is not "home." I confronted my husband about this and he got angry. He says he doesn't see the big deal in it. That the fact that he is sleeping in the guest room isn't a big deal to him. Am I wrong? Or crazy?
Gunny376 Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 I'd be telling his @zz! He can come to visit but here's the phone number and address to the local Hotel Six ~ they always leave the lights on. You and can head down to the local bar and joke & smoke all night long. But your not going to be doing it in front of my face nor my space! We teach others how to treat us! If he has a problem with that? That's what it is! HIS problem! ~ Not yours!
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