ravendelacroix Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 (edited) It all started when I met him at a house party my guy friend took me to. I met his whole crew and when I met him and we instantly clicked! We spoke on the balcony for (no joke) 6 hrs… the party ended and then we decided to go out for breakfast and then headed to a park to continue our adventure. The night/ morning adventure ended at 10am… but the night was unbelievable. Our whole night was based on conversation and we didn’t even think about fooling around… we were clicked so well… that wasn’t even on our minds So that’s how we started… a month and half of pure bliss pass by. I’ve met all his friends… He’s met mine… he called me every morning, lunch and after work. Everything was perfect… no pressure… we weren’t looking to rush into anything… we were just taking things day by day. 2 months into it… on a Saturday morning… I decided to text him the WC soccer score of that morning… when everything changed! I received a blank text back… confused… I decided to call him. That’s when a female voice answered. I immediately hung up! I was confused… wondering who the hell was that!!! Here’s some back ground info about him. When I met him… he told me he just ended a 10 year relationship with this girl, he has a 4 year son with her and that he broke up with her because she was caught in a lie. Story goes… she said she was going for a run at a park nearby… she called telling him she running late and was at the park talking to a friend on the phone who was having “man” trouble… he said he had this weird feeling and decided to go to that park. That’s when he caught her talking to some other guy. Basically there’s no proof that she was actually cheating but was caught lying because she panicked when he confronted both of them. After all that… he said he tried to make it work for a month but moved out… and told me he was staying with a friend while he got his Fast forward to the person who answered his phone… I spoke to him a few days later when he decided to tell me the truth… that he actually purchased a condo with her (4 yrs ago) when his son was born… and that he was staying there but sleeping on the couch. I guess I was so surprised by all of this that I didn’t cut him off immediately. Maybe that was my fault… Still not sure why I didn’t react the way I probably should have. So here I am… after she found out about me… she called me a bunch of times claiming I’m a home wrecker… asking me a millions questions. I denied everything as did he… saying we were just friends. With everything that happened… she realized I was a threat and convinced him to give it another try… so he’s officially gone back to her… and me… well… I’m left screwed. My heart hurts… he doesn’t want to stop seeing me. She tracks his phone bill… so talking hasn’t been the same… but we’ve since figured out a way to communicate. (Shady… I know!) I know it’s not right… hence why I feel so torn. I know I can’t continue seeing him… but it kills me to stop talking to someone who felt so right to have around. We’re trying to be friends but we always end up doing things we shouldn’t because we’re so attracted to each other. I wish he would just leave me alone… or even better… to have been honest with me from the beginning… I asked him why he didn’t tell me the truth from the start…. knowing very well that if he did… I wouldn’t be in this situation right now! He said because he knew I wouldn’t have continued talking to him… I called him selfish and admitted that he was. He said he felt torn… having this girl for 10yrs who’s the mother of his son… he cares a lot for her…but he’s not in love with her! And then he said… there’s me… this amazing girl who he wouldn’t change one bit... but his situation is all messed up. I know… sounds familiar to every cheaters story… right? What am I supposed to do… I’m not asking for sympathy nor do I need any negative comments… I just need opinions as my heart tells me one thing and my mind tells me another... Signed… Heartbroken… </3 Edited July 13, 2010 by ravendelacroix spell check
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