gobbleguts Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 What is the longest you've went without speaking to your significant other?
wrencn Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 I would say about a week, but back in 01- when we were separated it was probably longer than that, I just can't remember. How long has it been for you?
Author gobbleguts Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 I will preface this by saying I did call my daughter's daycare to check on her daily!!! Two weeks, when we first separated about 10 weeks ago. It ate her up, she got all pissed off that I didn't call to check on our daughter. (She knew that I called daycare to check on her)
Author gobbleguts Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 I think I'm game for doing it again. It was much easier on me. I don't feel like putting myself out there emotionally anymore. No reciprocation gets old fast.
wrencn Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 If my husband moves out, I'm going to have to do that too. My oldest has a cell so we don't have to talk. He can call them instead of me. You have to do whatever is best for you.
Author gobbleguts Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 It's tough isn't it....man o man. My wife just sent a pic of my daughter with some cool little sunglasses on. Something about a baby with shades on that melts my heart.
Author gobbleguts Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 I have a question for ya wrencn. First; do you have a southern accent? (I think you might) And second; wrencn... bird lover perhaps?
wrencn Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 It is hard! As you can see I can't seem to loosen my grip. I bet your baby looked precious in her sun glasses! Yes I have somewhat of an accent because I'm a native Texan- not a Virginian. And Wren is my name but I do love birds.
Author gobbleguts Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 I try to get my sense of humor through to the virtual world, but it doesn't always work. Wren is a beautiful name. You are blessed, remember that. You woke up this morning and your kids love ya.
wrencn Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 I try to get my sense of humor through to the virtual world, but it doesn't always work. Wren is a beautiful name. You are blessed, remember that. You woke up this morning and your kids love ya. I am always up for a laugh, especially these days!!! Jokes will keep me off the ledge!
Author gobbleguts Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 Well keep following my posts and you will surely be entertained. Lol
habs53 Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 What is the longest you've went without speaking to your significant other? If text messages dont count, its been over a month.
Author gobbleguts Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 Man Roy, that's quite a lengthy period. How are you feeling about it?
carhill Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 Since this thread is in the 'separation and divorce' forum, I'll opine that in no way do I consider stbx to be my 'significant other', and, hence.... I haven't seen stbx in person in over a year and we've talked on the phone, generally about divorce business, perhaps 3-4 times during that period. Hopefully, soon, we'll meet at the courthouse and finalize our paperwork. This week would be great. Gotta keep the Hoover at bay
Author gobbleguts Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 True, significant other was the wrong choice of words perhaps. And that's along time of pain and suffering.
habs53 Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 Man Roy, that's quite a lengthy period. How are you feeling about it? This i my choice. When she first left, i told her i would call every few days. I changed my mind. You cannot get over someone calling all the time.
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