AlwaysConflicted Posted July 12, 2010 Share Posted July 12, 2010 (edited) My girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. For a while I was depressed, sad, angry, frustrated, dissapointed...You name it. Reading through this website is a double edged sword. It helps me cope knowing others are out there, but it also makes me think about my ex. I've been calm for a couple of weeks now and I've been able to think about the breakup without being overwhelmed by emotions. My breakup was silly, but she had her reasons. We had a great time together...things could have worked if she would have just stuck it out a little longer. Anyways, I know I can't change the past and I haven't heard from her in a month. She's long gone. I'm struggling to see a clear memory of her in my mind anymore. I wonder if she's even thought about me. She wasn't perfect and neither am I. I miss that crazy psycho. She was nuttier than a snickers bar, but I loved her. Edited July 12, 2010 by AlwaysConflicted Link to post Share on other sites
Username37 Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 My girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. For a while I was depressed, sad, angry, frustrated, dissapointed...You name it. Reading through this website is a double edged sword. It helps me cope knowing others are out there, but it also makes me think about my ex. I've been calm for a couple of weeks now and I've been able to think about the breakup without being overwhelmed by emotions. My breakup was silly, but she had her reasons. We had a great time together...things could have worked if she would have just stuck it out a little longer. Anyways, I know I can't change the past and I haven't heard from her in a month. She's long gone. I'm struggling to see a clear memory of her in my mind anymore. I wonder if she's even thought about me. She wasn't perfect and neither am I. I miss that crazy psycho. She was nuttier than a snickers bar, but I loved her. Same amount of time as me. And I had rapid change of emotions too. We have a similar story. Went to LS, got some GREAT help, made me think of my exgf a helluva lot, thought about the break up, all that stuff. Although I been aware of my ex's current activity from a mutual friend (I think it's pretty well known on this site what she's been doing) She's different now, and many took notice. Like the way she speaks and acts towards some people is questionable. Anyways I always wonder, every ****ing day, "is she thinking of me? Like I think of her?" No one is perfect. And as much as she hurt me after the break up, I can honestly say I miss her and still love her. As much as I love her, I haven't thought about contacting her honestly. NC is pretty powerful and if you're on it, stick with it. I'm just gonna let her be I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
eca Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 She wasn't perfect and neither am I. I miss that crazy psycho. She was nuttier than a snickers bar, but I loved her. Haha, I just reached 2 months no contact as well. I'm having a bad day today, and this quote made me laugh out loud. Haha, it's just funny how honest you are. But just wanted to say thanks for making my day better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AlwaysConflicted Posted July 13, 2010 Author Share Posted July 13, 2010 hah, my pleasure. Link to post Share on other sites
Thierro Posted July 13, 2010 Share Posted July 13, 2010 I loved the quote too, lol. First month of NC as we speak. So, congrats to us, I guess.. We should celebrate it with a snickers. Link to post Share on other sites
smk Posted July 20, 2010 Share Posted July 20, 2010 She wasn't perfect and neither am I. I miss that crazy psycho. She was nuttier than a snickers bar, but I loved her. what i would give for a bite of a snickers bar right now.... hmmmmmm snickers...... my ex was more of a toblerone kinda girl - full of little crazy bits and always up and down.... Link to post Share on other sites
mikezombie777 Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 My ex was pretty much a Picnic. Quite bumpy on the outside and sometimes hurts your mouth taking a bite, but still tastes good once you start chewing. Then comes the nut allergy - you just can't control the fact she's gonna be the death of you due to the fact she's emotionally messed up and immature. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 My Ex was a Twirl. Smooth and Sweet on the outside, Crumbly on the inside. Link to post Share on other sites
smk Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 My Ex was a Twirl. Smooth and Sweet on the outside, Crumbly on the inside. I think my ex was a twirl in fact... thank you for bringing that to my attention...LOL Link to post Share on other sites
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 I probably should have said 'Flakey' on the inside Link to post Share on other sites
Author AlwaysConflicted Posted July 21, 2010 Author Share Posted July 21, 2010 Hah, I love that this thread has turned into " What kind of candy is your ex?" It's fun to read Link to post Share on other sites
YellowShark Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 Mine was a Cadbury Dairy Milk.... with razor blades inside! Link to post Share on other sites
smk Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 i guess humour is the one thing that can help bring a smile to our faces - and they say if you smile it tricks the brain into thinking that you are happy.... Link to post Share on other sites
Thorgs Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 I would have to say mine is a handful of Jelly Beans. You never know what to expect! Link to post Share on other sites
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