Thebob Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I been talking to this girl for 3 weeks, we met at a bar and we been talking and sleeping together since the first night . We haven't been with anyone else and we enjoy each others company a lot. She cooks dinner for us, we do pretty much everything together for the past 3 weeks and things couldn't be going better. She has hinted at parties that she isn't interested in any other guys and that she is only interested in me. Is this hinting towards exclusiveness? I have never been in a real relationship and it would be a real good change of pace if this one works out and I can get in to something more serious. How should I bring it up to her? The book says for the girl to bring it up but I feel that makes the man look more like a pussy in my book. We hung out last night, and she always is by my side wanting to be near me or touching me in someway. It makes her feel more safe I guess and she always comes up to me for kissing and what not. But she does it in a way that isn't annoying or bratty. And she doesn't annoy me through texts and what not, I really cant find a flaw in any of our encounters whatsoever. She hasn't gotten jealous when we run in to my ex-hook ups and if anything it makes her want me more. So what should I do? and how can I bring exclusiveness up to her? Thebob
whatadeer26 Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Pull a grade school move and just straight up ask her to be your girlfriend. My ex thought that was sooooo cute when I asked her. Think about it and do what you're comfy with. Their really is no wrong way to ask this question. Just make sure this is what you really want and what not.
deux ex machina Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 "I want us to be (officiallly) exclusive." Or whatever sounds natural to you. Good luck.
electricity Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I think her hinting that she's not interested in seeing other people IS her bringing up the subject. She was testing the waters, trying to see if you were interested or running for the hills. I don't know how you responded, but if you think you'd be interested in dating her exclusively, just up and ask her.
Gattica Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I would just ask. I wouldn't base anything on her saying she isn't interested in other guys. I have had that told to me before (swap girls for guys) and found out that he was a player and seeing other women. Ask and see if words and actions match.
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