GreenerGrass Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Good Day everyone! I'm in my mid 20's and looking for a stable relationship, no game playing. 8 months ago was the end of a 6.5 year battle as Id call it LoL. Realistically it should of beena 3.5 year ordeal, but I stuck around even though the love wasn't there. I now know what I'm looking for. Not looking for a selfish woman, and I'm certainly done with women that are diminished in moral capacity. Lastly, I certainly will never be a doormat again. Not sure what's wrong in my situation? I'm not into sports, and despise large gatherings (crowds of people). I prefer to mind my own business and just chill. Don't get me wrong, I like to go out and have a fantastic time. I have a young girl that's my world. I'm shy to a point. I'm pretty much dumb when it comes to knowing whether a woman is interested or not (typical guy here). I think I am attractive. I have blond hair (which becomes a obstacle), average weight, and about 5' 10. It seems as if I'm an odd-ball. I joke around a bit, usually a bunch. Laughing is my thing, getting people to laugh, and or laughing over something i've done or they did. Call it crazy but all the weird things drive me. I.E: getting a flat tire. While it would piss everyone else off, I find it entirely amusing, and funny. Another instance would be, when a female constantly b**tches at me. I find it to be hot, and its no joke. <--- But that's in a relationship sense. I'm not talking the degragation type of bit**ing, just the general type. In short, what I'm asking is it possible any female would find anything attractive??? GG
Author GreenerGrass Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 LOL! with all the views and no replies Im in trouble
TouchedByViolet Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 Why would blonde hair be an obstacle...? Anyway, I don't see anything significant you are missing... I would recommend some type of sport in your life. Athletics can be such a life saver when you feel down and it helps you meet tons of people. I'm sure you can find a sport you enjoy... ex. basketball, soccer, rock climbing, surfing, snow boarding, etc. Oh, and your personality sounds fine. Do you struggle meeting women? Is it hard for you to find dates? What is the problem specifically and how long have you been trying to get past it? One thing you should work on is finding a quality and compatible women.
Author GreenerGrass Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 As for the blond hair, it seems women are attracted to darker complected men... at least around here. Do I struggle to meet women? hm, I have zero problems getting conversation going, but I hesitate to go up and start one. I have issues figuring out whether they are attracted to me. I guess fear of rejection is what it is. Some days I don't give a damn, and I just do it, other days I hesitate. That's how it's been for the longest time. I'm active, I'm outdoors a lot, and have a membership at a gym.
Feelin Frisky Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 You sound rather normal. You're single and don't want to be. And believe it or not, you're very young. I consider 32 young. It was my best year por los chicas. So don't be surprised if it takes a while to meet. Good places are continuing education at night, some kind of co-ed interests--basically things where you'll encounter young woman who want to better themselves and maybe are even there because they are lonely too. The world's a lonlely place if you don't go out and be somebody to someone.
Author GreenerGrass Posted July 14, 2010 Author Posted July 14, 2010 I forgot to mention the lack of interest in tv, and movies as well. Don't mind to spend time with a gf watching tv, and the like. TV/movies just drive me nuts.
Green Posted July 14, 2010 Posted July 14, 2010 Well Why don't you go out there and TRY something and let us know how it goes. So far I don't see any examples of how you have been TRYING.
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