supersub Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I've done almost two months no contact since a failed reconnect. I haven't had any any urge to contact either. Not bad eh? Days have been pretty easy going, been a few bad ones in there, but generally life seems to be getting better. Part of this comes from a tremendous amount of self belief, yes despite the knocks and the pain, I still have that, and I believe we all do. I'm having a few issues getting that second date with a few girls, but I think part of that is actually feeling ready for it. I love chatting up women, but I'm finding the whole dating thing a little difficult cos I guess I'm getting my game back again. I guess I just don't want to feel like I did a few months ago so I'm protecting myself a little. My confidence in such realms is sky high until I have to arrange a date, then I find myself in strange territory, I don't want the rejection, and so I kind of loose confidence. silly really. Anyhow there is some progress here, and hopefully onward and upward we go. <insert applause here> Sup:cool:
rocket182 Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Great job with the NC! I never thought it would work until I actually did it, and now I'm like the number 1 spokesperson haha. You'll get your groove back when you're ready, just remember not all girls are going to be like your ex.
rager Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 Totally understand what you're saying, I too am struggling to get my 'mojo' back, but see little glimpes of it once in awhile. It wont take too long. I just keep working on what I want to do to better myself.
Author supersub Posted July 13, 2010 Author Posted July 13, 2010 Hey Rocket, and Rager, Thanks for your comments, sometimes you just want to hear that other people identify with different parts of the process. I know I am close, there are just a few more steps and I have every confidence I will be through this very soon. Rager, you are spot on with the Mojo comment. Its there, but its not quite vibrant enough yet, I think that just a few more weeks, and I could be through it. Well I hope I'm through it, because I'm sick of it, and I want total normality back in my life. I know every day that passes I get a little closer. Thanks again guys. Sup:cool:
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