4everloveu Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I didn't see OP post to any reply. Maybe OP isn't seeking for advice.
califnan Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Yeah, me too. She was a BS posting on Infidelity... her story and michelle's were eerily similar. I guess it was a total coincidence that edith and michelle showed up and disappeared at the same time. Wouldn't it be ironic if edith shows up, posting that her WS is emailing his OW again? --------------------- Yes. I have no idea why some all of a sudden disappear ..
califnan Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I didn't see OP post to any reply. Maybe OP isn't seeking for advice. -------------------- Uh oh .. don't tell me we're left talking to ourselves again ..
awkward Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Honestly every once in awhile I read a post and I think this doesn't seem right. It's a story but from the wrong perspective. I can see a BW imagining this scenario where the OW pursued and snagged the MM. But I've never seen an OW portray her relationship in this way. In fact this and Tex's story with the he/she did this and then that are the only posts that felt like narratives. However, in Tex's case I believe it to be real and him just writing it down so he could relive every part over and over and over.
jj33 Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Awkward you hit the nail on the head. That is what I kind of thought too when I read it, is this a BS masquerading as an OW... If it is, we did ourselves proud:) and showed that no that is NOT what we consider to be acceptable behavior - (honor among theives so to speak)
theodora Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 Aw, bless. You aren't "back together" . You had sex and now he's gone on holiday with his wife.
stillafool Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 I miss Edith Yeah, I wonder what happened with Edith and if she ever told her husband that she knew he was having an affair? I also wonder about Lostit2010. (Okay, sorry to get off topic.)
fooled once Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 This post screams troll to get everyone worked up. jthorne, can you make me some real buttery popcorn?
sadintexas Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 He reeled you back. Too bad you did not continue with NC. I really sense an enormous amount of pain coming your way. I think she reeled him back in not the other way around. There seems to be a lot of calculation and manipulation on your end. What bothers me the most is that he gave you SO little (talking about his kids and family doesn't mean anything) and you see it as something completely different. To the point of being delusional I'm afraid. I fear for what you're going to do when this doesn't work out the way you think. Are you the type to seek revenge?
RaeRae30 Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 My MM also told me how much his kids would love me once I was in their lives. The hatred those kids have for me after 2 days of him being gone is unlike anything they have ever felt. Imagine a 13 year old girl emailing you and telling you that you have ruined her life. It's all a line, I fell for it too. The fact that he told you that he hung up on his wife, yep been there too. "Babe I didn't even answer when she called" but he did call her immediately after leaving me to apologize... I hope I'm wrong for your sake. I wish we could all get our happy endings.
OWoman Posted July 13, 2010 Posted July 13, 2010 I have decided top change my strategy. No more demands. That only works if you're happy to be a doormat. Not really fitting behaviour for an OW, IMO - more like the dog under the table hoping some scraps will fall. Fine if your ultimate ambition is to be an oppressed W, ruled by her H with an iron rod with no opinion of her own allowed... but if you have any bigger ambitions than that, I reckon you're setting off down the wrong track.
OM1 Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 (edited) Michelle - you are troubled. I'm not going to bash you, just urge you to reevaluate. I'm a single OM, and have gone through these very things. You are seeing a silver lining where there isn't one. You are taking any positive interaction as a sign of something more, notwithstanding the fact that nothing he said should make you think there's anything more. It's poison. Take it from me, Michelle. I'm poisoned too. Ugh, I thought this smelled like a troll. Edited July 16, 2010 by OM1 I'm editing because I think I earnestly responded to someone that was merely trolling!
Untouchable_Fire Posted July 16, 2010 Posted July 16, 2010 OK, kids, so it finally happened. Some of you may remember my story, I was an unapologetic OW and got endlessly bashed for wanting to continue my affair... It's been 9 weeks since I went NC with him. I stayed strong. As some of you may remember, my plan was to see him at a friend's birthday party at work and break NC... Your acting like a woman with very little self esteem.
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