Nikki Sahagin Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 My ex, through his own actions, has helped me get over him. He has finally dropped the 'nice guy' facade and showed his true colours; immature, selfish, angry, cowardly, unable to communicate, volatile, untrusting, deceitful and completely hypocritical. Whereas I forgave my ex for a lot of things and was always ready to hear him out, my ex hears one thing thats not even true and rather than asking me or talking to me, he just explodes like a bomb and turns into a complete monster. I now feel nothing for him, weird as that sounds. He has shown himself to be a horrible person - not the kind of person I want to be with and finally he is off the pedestal. I am so relieved for this! I just thought i'd share this on loveshack, and I hope all of you are doing well If they show you disrespect, remember it, thats not a lie, thats who they really are and what they really feel about you.
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 If they show you disrespect, remember it, thats not a lie, thats who they really are and what they really feel about you. I'm doing well! But this advice will ensure that I continue to do well. Couldn't have put it better myself. SO many times I was disrespected. All were little things, but they were big enough. NEVER AGAIN.
brokendream Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 My ex, through his own actions, has helped me get over him. He has finally dropped the 'nice guy' facade and showed his true colours; immature, selfish, angry, cowardly, unable to communicate, volatile, untrusting, deceitful and completely hypocritical. Whereas I forgave my ex for a lot of things and was always ready to hear him out, my ex hears one thing thats not even true and rather than asking me or talking to me, he just explodes like a bomb and turns into a complete monster. I now feel nothing for him, weird as that sounds. He has shown himself to be a horrible person - not the kind of person I want to be with and finally he is off the pedestal. I am so relieved for this! I just thought i'd share this on loveshack, and I hope all of you are doing well If they show you disrespect, remember it, thats not a lie, thats who they really are and what they really feel about you. Thats great! Something similar happened to me in the past couple of weeks. If a guy can't communicate like an adult and sort things out then he's not worth your time.
GrayClouds Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 (edited) My ex, through his own actions, has helped me get over him. He has finally dropped the 'nice guy' facade and showed his true colours; immature, selfish, angry, cowardly, unable to communicate, volatile, untrusting, deceitful and completely hypocritical. Whereas I forgave my ex for a lot of things and was always ready to hear him out, my ex hears one thing thats not even true and rather than asking me or talking to me, he just explodes like a bomb and turns into a complete monster. Could I suggest maybe you just found the courage to see him for real? Otherwise your still giving him power to control your. How we word things says great deal, specially to ourselves. Edited July 12, 2010 by GrayClouds
rocket182 Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Congratulations! It always sucks to have to face the fact that a person is not who you thought they were, but once you get over it and bounce back it's such an amazing feeling.
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