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2nd crush...don't want to make a mistake again !


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I hope you're gonna read my story and give me some inputs since I don't know what to do now.

 

Until now, I've just had 2 crushes. I had my first crush when I was a freshman in college. At that time, I had a feeling that he liked me too, but I wasn't sure. I was shy and quiet. I didn't tell anyone that I liked him. I was confused. I didn't know what to do, so I just kept my feeling inside. I think I've been liking him for about two years without letting anyone know about it. Sadly, he had to move to another state at the end of sophomore year. I was really sad, but I tried to act as normal, so no one knew that I was sad.

 

One day after almost one year after he left, when I was chatting with my friend at cafeteria, we just randomly talked about him. My friend suddenly said " I think D (name of the guy) liked you". I was shocked. She analyzed his body languages for me. After listening to her, I thought I was an idiot. I missed my chance.

 

Since the day he left, I haven't been interested in any guys. It's been three years now. Recently, I've just had my 2nd crush on a guy, and this time I also have a feeling that he likes me too because of his eye contacts and his body languages. This time I'm a little bit more brave. I talk to this guy more. He has lunch and chat with me even his schedule is so intense. However, there is an important thing I have to do since September, and I have to move out of states for at least one year ( I still come back to US during Christmas). It means I won't get to see him. I'll really miss him. Should I just keep in tough with him through email without telling him that I like him. Or should I tell him I like him, but I have to leave him for a while? I'm lost. I don't know what to do. But definitely, I don't want to lose this guy like I did to the other guy before.

 

Thanks for reading my long story.

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Thats a tough call. I would go for the relationship now and see what happens.

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