Gero Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Okay, so I am sure that most people here know my situation due to my posting it in ten different topics here on LS. Anyway, I met and went on 3 dates with the nicest, prettiest and overall best girl that I have ever dated. Things didn't really work out because of her unwillingness to open up and my lack of confidence and having trouble making a move or whatever. Last week she told me to call her when I was over my issues. I talked to a lot of friends and stuff and decided earlier to just send her a text today and ask how she was doing. I figured that if she doesn't respond then I know where she stands. I haven't gotten a response and I doubt I will so I am planning on moving on. I really liked this girl and this was the first time in a long time that I actually felt strongly about a girl. The funny thing is that the more times that things don't work out the easier it is for me to deal with and it gets kinda scary. I don't really want to become dead inside and never really have any emotion again but that's where I think I am headed. Right now I said goodbye to two girls that I was talking to online and deleted my online dating profile. I am not a big fan of dating so I don't really know where I go from here. I would like a girlfriend but it just seems as more time goes on that it's just not going to work and it's just too much to deal with. I used to be hellbent on finding someone to build a relationship with and right now I am totally indifferent to it. I've gone years at a time in the past not dating due to just feeling indifferent towards dating and the whole thing. It's sorta sad, but I really don't know what else to do. Anyway, I am just looking for some input from the helpful people here on LS. Should I just give up on actively looking for someone for now and focus on whatever other things make me happy? Should I put myself out there and get out of my comfort zone in order to have a chance to meet new people? What do you guys think? Any help would be appreciated.
Author Gero Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 Ha. Of course she would respond after I post this. Anyway, I am just going to go with the flow and not get my hopes up too much.
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