Thee_Fear Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I've been dating a very beautiful girl for a little over half a year now. She's great, funny and nice (when she wants to be) and all that. There's just one thing though.. she gets mad at the smallest and dumbest things. For example, if I ask her what she's up to she'll get mad and say it's none of my business. And mad isn't just pout for a bit and that's it. She'll start to insult me and want to break off the relationship over it. Also, she never, ever believes a thing I say. I go out for a friends birthday party, right? I let her know I went to his house but didn't mention we went to play billiards a bit later. She automatically assumes I'm hanging out with girls and won't believe me when I say it's not true. She just insists on calling me a liar and not listening to a word I say. So she can be mad when I ask what she's up to, but if I don't tell her what I'm doing, she gets to be mad too? A bunch of other small, idiotic things I could use as examples, such as her getting mad at me posting a comment on facebook that basically said, "I miss you." Yes, it was for her. I told her it was for her. Why she get mad? Because she said I'm being overly dramatic and want everyone on the fb to pity me. I love the girl. When she's good, she's just wonderful. It's just that way too often does she get upset over something stupid and small resulting in an argument. I have to then apologize even if I did nothing wrong to HOPE she gets over it quick enough. Phew, I had to let something out. tl;dr version: Girlfriend gets mad at smallest things resulting in big arguments and she says I'm never telling the truth.
summerl0vesyou Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Thats rough dude. Unfortunately, Ive been that girl, and kinda am being like that in my own rship so I see it from the other end. enough to say, that i feel bad for you. though she shouldnt get pissed cuz u ask her what shes doing. i hope it gets better for you, though it does sound a bit toxic
Gero Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 Don't apologize. Stick up for yourself. The only way you're going to stop this is if you don't put up with it. My sister can be a bitch at times as well and she'll boss guys around and treat them like sh*t if they're "too nice". The only way you're going to fix this issue is to stand up for yourself and not say sorry when you did nothing wrong. If that doesn't help things then nothing will and it's best to move on.
Trojan John Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 You have to find some way to stop this behaviour and let her know that you don't appreciate it. From my experience, it only gets worse. Another thought -- she may be projecting. Do you have any reason to suspect her of cheating?
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I don't want to sound mean but are you sure she doesn't have some sort of mental illness? All tho I don't know how you would ever confirm it if shes so confrontational..
BobSacamento Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 She sounds like a cheater. Being pissed when asked what she's doing and assuming you are cheating just are some flags for me. Perhaps she probably assumes if she is fooling around you are to and she probably gets pissed about being asked what she's doing because she hates to have to lie.
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