cleveraccountname Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I've posted my story before, were together for 3 years, she kissed another guy then left right after I found out (this was 2 weeks ago) Through text messages and contact with my friends and family, she was also very cocky and outright rude and non-remorseful for the few days that followed the breakup. Anyway the tune of her messages changed a few days later, she sent me messages asking me how I was etc etc....Didn't reply, although I did reply to one stuff-related message, with a flat, one-line administrative response. About four days ago, my mother ran into her on the street. Mum is a very good person and said hello, how are you etc, and also asked her for a key that she needed to give back. As my ex scrambled for it, mum noticed she was still using my old keyring (which is simply my initial). When they parted ways, the ex asked my mum nervously to say hello to me. A couple nights ago I went out with friends to a club, she was there with some of her new, questionable friends. Anyway, it was a small club, she was dancing away with another guy and I was dancing with some girls. She then started making out with the guy, knowing I was there and probably still hurting (I didn't react or anything, didn't want to give her the power and aside from seeing her I was actually enjoying myself, although seeing what I saw did ruin my night)......note: later I found out from her friend that she was on party drugs, a new thing she has gotten into during the last 2 weeks. Anyway, the next evening, the ex sent me a message, a fairly friendly message letting me know about something (unrelated to us or what happened to night before) Since the breakup I havent grovelled and begged, which due to how much faith I had in the relationship, a part of me wanted to. I havent been a psycho, abused her about wht she did, because I know that would make me feel good for about two seconds until it ultimately makes her feel justified for being a cheating biatch. I know I replied to stuff-related message a week ago, but other than that I have sent her nothing except a message telling her when she can pick up her stuff right after we broke up. So basically, the contact from her has been.......(all text messages) *A half-hearted appology for what she did, the evening I found out. *A selfish and childish message trying to find out details about how I found out about her cheating, as well as a cocky self-righteous one about getting her stuff. I did not reply to either of these. *A message saying 'How are you 'a few days later. *An administrative message that really didn't need to be sent to me. *The message following the night out at the club that i talked about above. Why is she still texting me? Why is she telling my mum to say hi? I'm not going to lie, it does actually make me feel a teensy bit better knowing that she isn't able to toss me aside COMPLETELY. I don't know what she wants/expects from me though. Maybe because I haven't been a complete dick/psycho about the situation, she thinks it possible that I will still want to talk to her. GAH.
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