shygal1 Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I have been dating my ex bf for about 6 months now. I left him for a month because he wasn't ready to commit. We dated officially for one full year. we are giving it another shot and he has yet to officially ask me and calls himself my bf but I want him to ask. He starting ignoring me because I got fed up that he cancelled on me Friday because I thought he ha something special planned and sees me only once a week. I got Nasty and sent some mean texts but he won't answer me ! Only one full day but he's not giving me answers towards why he won't see me. Am I being to clingy and asking too much?
Serenitynow Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 he has yet to officially ask me and calls himself my bf but I want him to ask. ask you what ? .
Cracker Jack Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 I think you need to take a step-back here. Anyway, the "officially asking" stuff isn't much of a big deal. If you guys continued for six month's, then he shouldn't be expected to ask you officially to be his girlfriend, or whatever you're talking about. As for him blowing you off: That's an entirely different issue.
Author shygal1 Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 His facebook says single and that really bothers me. And he erased I comment I left because he didn't want private stuff on there. All it said was I <3 u. He says he loves me but ignoring someone is emotional abuse I feel. I did nothing but want to spend time with him
Cracker Jack Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 So, despite you guys rekindling your love for six entire month's, a simple lack of a title change on Facebook along with a deleted comment brings on emotional abuse, in your mind? If he says he loves you, the choice is to either believe him or don't. Kay. Anyway, communication doesn't seem to be a strong point in your relationship if you're this distraught over....well, nothing. It also doesn't help that you guys barely see each other.
Author shygal1 Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 He is currently ignoring me like a child, yes that's emotional abuse. In a relationship u answer and tell the other person what's going on.
Serenitynow Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 How old are both of you? Are you sexually active with him ? .
Author shygal1 Posted July 12, 2010 Author Posted July 12, 2010 We are both 23 and yes throughout our entire relationship and the past 6 months
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