dont know what to think

[sleeplessinireland]

hi folks, firstly thanks to whoever reads this, ive come out of a relationship that lasted 2years we broke up over his internet use and flirting with other women that was 5months ago, he still texts at least once a day for stupid reasons or just to say hello,i have been stupid and emailed and texted telling him i missed him and wished he would come back to me , ive stopped that because i know i cant make him love or want me i keep any msn conversations to a minimum we dont have any other contact and it kills me i love him very deeply , hes been in a few other relationships but sounds happy as he is at the min hes single hes asked me out for a coffee in a few weeks i answerd sayin maybe because i know just seeing him will break my heart all over again , but even when asked he has said he has a few feelings for me but nothing else how do i finally give up hope of a life with him when hes all i think about 24/7

[whatadeer26]

Time....... You should cut all contact with him. Like social Networking sites and anything that triggeres a memory of them. it will help you in the long run. I know how very hard it can and will be, but it has helped me.

 

Sucks that a lot of the popular songs on the radio remind me of my ex, but that will be over soon. Try to remove any and all triggers

[sleeplessinireland]

i cut all social networking and dont go looking as i know it just hurts me to see him chat and flirt and date other women , i rarely go on msn and when i have its been a 5min conversation with himim the person he contacts if he needs help and i know he prob just uses me because if he wanted me he would have been begging me to take him back i just dont understand why he would still text even once a day or ask me for a coffee

[rocket182]

You need to go full NC. He doesn't know what he wants. he's feeling lonely and is talking to you and asking you out to keep you interested because he knows you're still stuck on him and that he can use you to boost up his ego.