counterman Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 I choose to not participate in some events since I would rather have fun with a smaller crowd. I mean I have a smash everytime I go out but just prefer some things over others. I was wondering in the early 20s, do girls date guys who have the same inclination to social events e.g. drink ups, house parties? I can see myself dating one of those more extroverted girls... but would wonder if it would matter if we different socially.
Enchanted Girl Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 I think that attraction isn't as simple as "this person could never be attracted to that person." The only people that attraction makes sense to are the two people who feel it. There are no hard rules for who is going to be attracted to who. But I do think that people who are similar in this area are usually happier dating people who are just like them. When you want to just stay home and relax with someone, it's nice to be with someone who wants to do the same thing. And if you like to go out and party a lot, it's nice to be with someone who is the exact same way. It just lets you relax more and be yourself. But if you like to be challenged and want an extroverted girl who will make you go out and be more extroverted as well, it would be a good match. And like I said, there's no hard rules to attraction or compatibility. It only makes sense to the two people who feel it.
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