Incognito3 Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 I've been doing the NC thing for a few days now... My question is, does it really work with getting an ex-boyfriend back?
ResetReality Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 (edited) This is a common misconception that NC will make your ex come back the idea is that they will miss you and realize what they had, maybe so, but why did they end it in the first place? NC may work to get your ex back but mainly NC is implemented for yourself! You can move forward with your life, It will be hard, no is no denying that, but over time it will make you stronger give you more experience. Its put in place so you can cut all connection to your ex, making the healing process alot easier (even though at times it is the hardest thing ever) I don't know what happened between you and your ex so I cant say too much about that But you are an ex for a reason Welcome BTW Edited July 11, 2010 by ResetReality
TaraMaiden Posted July 11, 2010 Posted July 11, 2010 I've been doing the NC thing for a few days now... My question is, does it really work with getting an ex-boyfriend back? That is not what it's for, not what it's about, and not in any way something to be hoped for. If you want him back, beg, plead, cajole, whine, camp out on his doorstep, hide in his car, follow him to work, send him soppy cards, flowers and love notes, and wail, weep, gnash your teeth and grab his ankle and never let go. Using NC - specifically to get him back - will be just as effective. Please - pretty please - read Caliguy's link in my signature - and stick to it, 1,000%.
Div Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 An ex wanted me back after a week of NC. However, nothing changed. It was the same ****, different day thing. The reasons for the breakup reared their heads only a few months after, causing me to go through the heartbreak process twice. He's an ex for a reason, as hard as it is it's time to move on. NC should be about you and you only.
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