AMN819 Posted February 6, 2004 Posted February 6, 2004 Okay, well I met this guy, "F", about 3 weeks ago. (unfortunately, I met him through a friend of mine, "A", that has a thing for me)...when I saw him, it was instant chemistry. I told "A" about it and to my surprise, he wasn't upset. I was hanging out with both of them a lot. "F" and I were getting pretty flirty. On Monday night, "F" and I were hanging out alone. We ended up sleeping together...(which is NOT like me.. am usually in a relationship for a couple of MONTHS before I go there). Now I am scared that I just lost complete respect and all hopes of a relationship. He has been calling everyday (several times/day) and asking me if I wanna go to a movie or to eat..but I am scared that I just messed it up..did I??
SoleMate Posted February 6, 2004 Posted February 6, 2004 No...but let him know when you go out for the movie that you wish you hadn't moved so fast and you want to rewind a ways.
Author AMN819 Posted February 6, 2004 Author Posted February 6, 2004 The thing is...it had been 3 months for me and 6 months for him...our hormones HONESTLY got a hold of us. I already told him that I am NOT like that and that I wish it hadn't happened so soon. He agreed, but said it wasn't a regret....I just hope it's not ruined before it started!
reasontosigh Posted February 6, 2004 Posted February 6, 2004 I'd say nothing's ruined here - you both sound like you're on the same page all around. Having said that he agrees but doesn't regret I would consider quite a compliment!
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